An affair,,,goes to another one and so on are P P P ( pleasure....problems.....police ). Think to your married sister or brother.



Ps/ the term you used ( affaire) is from French language.

see that shiny thing in the window..so much prettier and newer than the one you have at home? ya it's gonna cost ya a pretty penny


it is the grand delusion
of having your cake and eating it too


I can keep the little woman, the kiddies, the house, the car
all exactly the way it is

and go out and get a litte sumpin sumpin on side


as if those two worlds will never collide

What if your wife is cheating on you?
Is it justified to look out for one night stands ... just to satisfy your self... not talking about an affair or a extra relationship!

Men who lack the baws to get out of a relationship that don't work anymore are a major turnoff.

I need someone with a backbone. If he's afraid to deal with life's ups and downs he doesn't have a backbone. Not the guy for me.
I have no respect such people, esp not if they start cheating on their partner.

Hi how r u

I d it sad that SOME people lie about if they are in a relationship or not.
The last young lady who was interested in me listed herself as not married. But soon after meeting she told me that she was WORKING on failing to end her marriage since her ex left her a couple of months ago.

I think u should find a better woman :)

sex

here is where I may differ from many,

in the realm of being human, that would be one of those 'understandable' situations

the way its 'understandable' for a woman prostituted since childhood to not trust men

it would still not be 'right',but it wouldn't cause me to question ones decency or character the way cheating on a faithful spouse would,,,,,

i would expect and hope for a man to either work things through at home or leave home,,,,the affair may seem like it would satisfy him, but if he is the type to be so hurt, his conscience would not be satisfied by stooping t his spouse level

Best answer ever! Well....... porn might work.

But, the main point is to TRY to reconnect with your wife somehow. You made a vow and entered into a contract.

You OWE the marriage an attempt to make it work.

Try treating her like the special person that she is. After all she did marry you. That took a very special person.

Buy her some inexpensive gifts that take some thought and hide them amongst her things. You know what is special to her. Let her discover them by happenchance.

Maybe put a favorite treat of hers in the fridge with a note that says "I'm sorry and I Love you."

You WILL hate yourself, as well you should, if you cheat because you are upset now and then get back together later. Just don't do it.

I was married once. I left him because I was not happy. I don't even think about touching a married man

I think that man is looking for a reason to make his wife leave rather than being honest and ending it on his own. Or isn't willing to try to find a way to work it out. Either way marital affair or divorce you are leaving your marriage. JMHO