At what point in a relationship should it become exclusive and who
should be the first to ask this?

i don't think it's a question to be asked...you both just stop looking elsewhere

thats a hard one. i agree with bgeorge.

it should be at least after a few months and how far you 2 have connected. but if he's one of these guys who consistently told you he wanted to take things slow and to not rush things...move on. they're players. or at least don't expect too much.

bring up the subject then after both of you have talked about it,and agree on it.

oops. you're a guy. just ask bring it up. why be afraid? you're not proposing

I slightly disagree bgeorge - it almost needs to be stated openly that you are going steady, exclusive, etc. or it could always come back later on with "I never said we were going steady/exclusive/etc."

It's not a bad thing to have a "state of the relationship" talk every now and then so the two of you know where you stand as long as it's handled maturely.

talking??? agreeing??? compromising??? guess that's why i'm single huh...lol

best thing i can say if follow your heart..it will help guide you with that

ugh......nope doesn't work like that in brendaland

Maybe the first one who feels strong enough about the other should say "hey, wanna be exclusive?" well, ok maybe not in those words but you get the point.

i followed my heart and got kicked in the squirrel bate,lol

before she says "i'm pregnant"..

Thank you ladies by asking this question I mean of course I'm talking to more than one lady on here but I haven't even met anyone yet but at what point should I not see anyone else?

I think things just kind of move that direction by the very nature of your schedules clicking and your lives becoming entwined (spelling).

I'm kinda on bgeorge's idea about it though.... it's the conversations and connection that occur automatically.

Sometimes once that question is asked it scares the person and then they wake up and question the relationship and run... been there on both sides.....

So the best scenario I've found is just be savvy and let things happen naturally. If it's a woman (in my opinion) she'll let you know with her eyes and warmth. You'll know when the timing is right to ask to be "steady". She'll have a gleam in her eye.

Good luck in connecting,

John

The one who feels the relationship should be exclusive should be the one to offer exclusivity right?

At what point?

I think once you start having sex, and seeing eachother at least 3 to 4 times a week especially on weekends and if you talk every day.

If these things are not a factor, I'm not sure I'd approach the exclusivity issue.

when you don't want to see anyone else...maybe i'm not understanding what you're trying to find out...

All great advice guys thanks a lot just trying to get back in the game

is the falcon having second thought s??

Yeah, it wants to date chickens..