I like this girl quite a bit etc she says it too. She won't call me because her phone is broken. Hmm it will take 3 weeks to fix kinda fishy to me.. Now I'm willing to wait.. and she did change her away message so it no longer says cells good so it is convincing me. Now, I figure that if I can't wait three weeks for this that maybe I shouldn't pursue a relationship. So I figure waiting will make things better and a longer time to get to know each other which might be better. Is this a general consensus?

I think you have a good handle on the situation, getting to know each other a bit more never helps, are you willing to give it all up just because you have to wait? Go with your gutt instinct, it usually turns out alright. But chatting a bit more never hurts.

sorry, i meant getting to know each other a bit more never HURTS...my mind was wondering!

I agree, it would be a really **** move if I stopped talking to her if her phone really did break. I'm not gonna be like that I don't want to hurt her she means a lot to me.

Maybe its just meant to be that her phone is broken now, maybe you are suppose to know some more about her before you pursue a relationship.

Ummm... ... I have too many crappy experiences with women to say too much. All I talk to turn out to be Nigerian women wanting my money or wanting me to subscribe to their webcams. None of them real.

Oh, well. I say just wait it out and see what happens.

nah.. she lives right by me and knew the name of our local college where she goes (unfortunately a different campus then me )

I always give trust up front... but if things smell fishy for too long I try to let it go easily so they can just move on whether they just don't know how to handle the situation or they are just plain liars/fakes.

Hope all is well with everyone and your gettin' respect. :)

Sounds like you have a good grasp on the situation man. I say go with your gut, and see what happens. If you are into her, and she is into you, then all should go well.

But.........

I have to admit, it does sound fishy to me. I mean, emailing is still possible right? So, as long as there is that, then communicate that way.

Anyways. Go with your gut man.

Well, we talk on AIM a lot. Hours a day.. but i believe her now because she took her cell phone out of her away messages. They used to always say "cells good" now it just says leave a message here. Plus she was whining about being naked before cuz her cell phones broken and that her parents are jerks for not buying her a new one. So, unless shes a complete psycho I believe her..

Then I think you have a good grasp on the situation bro. And if she is a complete psycho, tell her your cell is broken and so is your comp.....lol!

yea lol then i'd block her or give her a wrong number haha

maybe she's 14 or worse... ever thought about that?

No.. she goes to college... and she has prom pictures in her profile...

Lmao. I thought you wrote "PORN" pics. I see it is "PROM"....lol.

well if she has porn pictures and i have to wait to get with her that would be a little weird. haha i figure if she had porn pictures shes an easy one haha