That is called putting your foot in your mouth and never worry as I for one do it very often too along with many others.

More patience ... I seem to have missed that line completely. I was distracted by the butt line

I have also been attracted to the Butt Line.!!!!

Butt line ?????? what are we talking about???? what! I can't hear you. what did you say "do i want some pork butt"? nah!!! I'am not really hungry!! clued out, maybe even senile

I would have liked to have been more focused instead of carefree.

All I can say is it is not pork......

You are not alone on that one.

I could only convince AD to take that trip he really wants. The he said he wanted to check out the North Pole :). As far as I can tell this would be the best Summer ever to drive through the process lakes :)

I am sure you could convince anyone. By the way beautiful ne photo.

Hi everyone

I would stop the doctor from dropping me on my head after I was born. I still don't think I've recovered.

I don't have thousands, but millions of regrets. I wouldn't trade or give away any regrets or what some call sins. they are mine and mine to own.

I believe it might have caused a very small amount of wisdom maybe... and then.... maybe not... I'm a hideous monster, inside and out, and I am completely comfortable with it.... I've walked this earth for a very long time.

Would it be nice to change it? sure!!! many things! I had many chances to do many unbelievable amazing things!

All I can say is: that to all I have offended, I'm deeply, truly sorry, but NEVER!!! NEVER want "forgiveness" for any of it. I just want them to know that I'm sorry.

Also if someone has a heavy heart for something they think they have done to me, all is forgiven to them... before they even did it... I may not trust them again, or may loathe them, but will forgive. I just watch my back.

Some will say, but don't you deserve or even want forgiveness?... actually NO! No thank you. I don't want to be anywhere NEAR it.... To me it's a selfish gesture to want it. I'm not comfortable with it...
Being forgiven, doesn't make "my heart lighter", or make Me "feel better"... or give me peace.... I have that already... Everyday I'm above ground, I'm thankful... and positive, and work on building up others when I can.

It's good to hear an ole voice of wisdom and not platitudes V.

And it's good to see voice of wisdom and understanding. Mr. B, I hope all is fantastic!

double post..... it says the website's full!

I just think it is important to say, "YES..I have regrets....especially to anyone I have even inadvertently wronged."

To wrap up something in a nice little trite, convenient blanket meme of "I wouldn't be the person I am today" is lazy...and lacks any true self awareness....and more important self accountability.

That's why I always appreciate your opinions darkowl.... (V.).....because they are not necessarily "easy" to hear.

OH man!!!! I have no clue where to start on things I would change.
The first time I misjudged someone?
The first time I was cruel to something?
The first time I forgot I was human and can't be expected to be all to everyone.
The times I disappointed my parents, grandparents, friends, etc...

The list is endless so instead I am going to just say

Thank God I lived through all the stupidity, harshness, cruelty, the list is endless that I have done.
I do better each day that I am alive. Hopefully I keep those lessons close to my mind, and heart so that I don't do the same things over again

If I could change somethings of course but that isn't reality and it can't happen.



IF there was one thing I could change honestly it would be that I was a better Mother..
I know my kids say I was fine or even great but deep down I know I could have been better.

I would shorten a few things that seem to scare women.










........like opinions and such

Yeah right then you wouldn't be the Beach whom we all care about

I would have gotten my education much quicker. I wasted way too much of my youth in the military, various low level jobs, and government. I would have become a doctor as soon as possible.