What does it mean if you have been chating to someone for over 2 months and you really enjoy it, but when you with the person you can't to look at her or even touch her?

Well, this is happening to me. I "met" a woman on another site. We talk just about everyday, for 2 or 3 hours at a time. We have lots in common. She likes all the movies that I do, she listens to the same music as me, and she even has the same sence of humor. When we don't talk for one day, I miss it greatly. We met for the first time 2 weeks ago. I knew what she looked like because she sent me seveal pictures of herself. She knew what I looked like to for the same reason. But when we met I was kind of dissappointed. She was competely different. I figured that might hapen and didn't give it much thought.

Well any ways, we spent several hours talking that day. Things were OK at first. I started to notice that when I looked at her, I felt sickly. If I didn't look while we talked I was fine. I just thought it was my nerves. We cotinued to talk everyday for many hours. I looked forward to it everytime. I never wanted our chat to end. We meet again the other day. I was so excited to seeing her. Things were great until she started to hold my hand. I kept telling myself that its just my mind playing tricks on me. About an hour later, we was walking outside when she stopped. I did too and then was about to ask why she did, that when she kissed me. It wasnt a bad one but when I opened my eyes and looked into her eyes, I got so sick to my stomach. We spent the next couple of hours talk, but every time I looked her way I wanted to throw up. I could no longer stand being around her. As I write this, it has been 30 hours since I left her apartment. We didn't chat today, but she wrote me saying that she liked the time we spent together. I did miss chatting with her but I can no longer look at her pictures with winching. What is wrong? Is it her? Is it me? or Is it that I dont find her atttacked enough? When I think back to that kiss I don't see her but I see Roseanne. And one more thing, We have another BIG date on the 17th of November. I don't want to go with her but I have spend $100 on two tickets to a play that we both want to see. The tickets are not refundable. WHAT DO I DO????

go man
ur just really nervous, thats normal
man i was nervous when i met a girl on here in real life, we been on 2 dates& going 2 c each other soon.im not nervous anymor. hang in there man

This is why i always go into things with the idea of being friends first. The chemistry is always different in person. Obviously you still enjoy her as a person so i would suggest trying to be just friends with her. Then you can still keep you date but as friends and you still get the conversation you enjoyed in the first place.

man just hang in there it has to be the nerves thats normal in any guy i still get nervous times but it gets better in time dont give up just yet

perhaps if u looked past her razor stubble, adam's apple , and the fact that her panties fit her like mr. snuffalufagus attemting a holdup- you'd possibly see that she's cool-

btw- welcome to the sad world of JSH....where u can snap off your virtual junk off and call it a day cuz no one's realized that there are people outside the computer......btw- i went through the same thing a few days ago- see, guys?....girls work us up into a frenzy- then show us pics of what they look like before the estrogen count comes crashing down....then choose you for mating cuz they've learned the lesson that it's sometimes better to be content than choosy.....

Goo that's hilarious stuff.
Hey Quiet there is some good advise here. There are so many things that are possible here.

You might be a little sickened at the prospect of having something work out and you having to break her heart cause you don't feel that chemistry with her.

Just go out and tell her to slow down. Of course you can take control of that.

J