is anyone else on here afraid sometimes that the person they talk to might not be completely honest or that they might be making themselves up....then how are u supposed to deside to be with them or not....how soon is too soon to meet?

Its possible.. if you talk to someone for some time, you can always just keep asking them the questions and see how they answer each time.

How soon .. it all depends on how the conversations go, how comfortable you are.

For me, I usually chat a bit.. get to know them.. ask them questions, and reask them... I will talk on phone with them, see how I feel about them then.. and maybe meet them right away or another time...

But it really all depends on how well you 'click' with that person...

i think meeting someone is hard... after you talk with them for awhile you get expectations of there body language or expresions... adn sure they might not be realistic expectations but then when you meet them and they are different ..... hell i ma not making any sense so I will quit now

I think it's always possible but the best thing is to watch out for it for but not totally stop meeting people because they could be lying about themselves. I don't think there's a specific time to meet. Just when each person feels it's the right time. I guess it just depends.

that is the 64 million dollar question now isnt it and tho i could speculate i truly have no answer..ive never done this before i am a dating site virgin..