Im the type of guy who likes to shower women with all sorts of gifts. i like giving flowers out on the first date to show that i have a romantic side instead of meeting someone with nothing to give them besides a hug. is that too much to ask for? Also what kinds of girls dont like to cuddle? If your a cuddle bug i think u should cuddle and yes i know space is what all you girls want but snuggling is good to have also bc it shows you how much the other person is like. If any girls like that sort of stuff feel free to write me back on my profile.

why dont girls like guys who are too nice?



cuz theyre stupid!!!!

always goin for the jerks and then whining to the guy that cares about them

i'd never give a woman a Mercedes because next time it will have to be a Ferrari!!!

good luck to you and welcome to the site.

First thing that comes to mind is tap the breaks on that first date swamping. You might be going out with females who prefer verbal appreciation initially instead of gifts...hmmm, sounds like words of affirmation before gift giving. Ugh, love languages.

truly I have no idea why girls dont like to nice... but to nice is also a sign of needy... wether you are in a relationship or not an individual also needs to have their own life...myself my ex wife didnt like the fsact that on wed night i had bowling league on fri nights we had mens basket ball.. on sundays i loved ot watch football... ok so what was her problem... becuase she had no life of her own wouldnt get involved in anything or try and make friends... she was a hoome body and wanted me to just stay home and cuddle all night....

there is nothing wrong with cuddling on occasion... wow not even sure what that had to do with too nice.. truly I think alot of women are turned off by too nice because they think that you are the type of guy that would get pushed around and walked all over in any situation.. but i am not a woman so i dont know... I do however know that to nice isnt good

Girls do like nice guys so that's not an issue.... but Dude! Why rush things. Flowers are real special and you really don't know anyone for a few weeks. At least give it 5 official dates. In fact hold off on the hugs tooo... Occasionally a kiss can happen on a first date (usually by the time I set it up there's at least that cause they trust me as a person).

Ya gotta play it cool.... they get suspicious like your desparate. Chicks (and I do say that with admiration) like a confident guy who knows how to hold a conversation, dance, keep his cool yet treat them like a lady. They like to feel safe and as though with you noone will mess with them.

Take your time..... even Janet Jackson wrote a song about it.

There is strategy in everything.... including letting someone get to know you..... Girls like a little mystery. Trust me, if you reveal everything to fast they will be like "that was to easy". Girls don't deny this.

Easy guys, I like nice guys!!!!!!

WHATS UP WITH THAT?!!

It's not that they dont like nice guys. It's how the guy makes her feel.

Well said Totage, but we do like the flowers too!

I like nice guys too! I think the problem lies with girls or women who have been burned wonder why you are being nice. You gotta have trust. Conversation and how you treat them goes a long ways. Also if your nice but boring meaning a couch potato or don't like to do anything fun then that is a turn off. I myself would love to have a nice guy who is into me. I think it's wonderful that you are such a romantic with the flowers and all. How neat for the woman that wins your heart. Keep smilin and furthermore. If a girl or woman is not into you because of your being nice do you really want them? I know the *****y girls are the challenge.