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Topic: License Plate
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Mon 05/30/16 06:50 PM
the "new friend" gets in your car and you then drive to the final destination date...getting out of your car, the person attempts to sneak and take a picture of your license plate.
Do you get offended and say something

I probably wouldn't get offended.

I would be curious as to why they got into my car and let me drive them somewhere else before they took a picture of my license plate.

And I would probably be more concerned as to what happened on the drive over that changed the situation from "I trust you, let me get in your car and have you drive me to god knows where," to, "OMG. Now's my chance. I better take a picture of their license plate while I still can."

Think the owner of the car should have been made aware of this beforehand?

If it mattered, license plates wouldn't be perpetually on the outside of the car.
It's not like they're hidden.

chatted... six-nine months... catfishibg happened ...never be sure about a person even after all of that time
car could have been rented, stolen or borrowed.
If it is two women meeting world it be necessary to do that or mainly if it is a woman and man?

Based on the level of suspicion you shouldn't take for granted they are a man or woman so gender mix doesn't matter.

The question that most seem to dodge is, what if it is two women meeting f2f for the first time? Is it okay then? Is it not okay?

I have no problem with someone taking a picture of my license plate.
If I did, I wouldn't put it on the outside of my car.


mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/30/16 07:27 PM


OK if a woman took the pic then it looks like a safety measure.

If a man does it...oh man! That looks stockerish. ..just saying :banana:


What if it is a woman meeting another woman? Then what?


not like women haven't been known to chop people up as well... everyone is crazy or on drugs nowadays...

markc48's photo
Mon 05/30/16 07:44 PM
Nobody does this.
What if.

RustyKitty's photo
Mon 05/30/16 08:01 PM
I probably would have taken the license plate picture before getting in the car..
just a safety measure on this move I'm thinking and yes, should be encouraged.. how about viewing of the drivers license?? is that going too far?
just asking...

Destinysyours's photo
Mon 05/30/16 08:05 PM

Nobody does this.
What if.


Nobody does what?

Destinysyours's photo
Mon 05/30/16 08:07 PM

I probably would have taken the license plate picture before getting in the car..
just a safety measure on this move I'm thinking and yes, should be encouraged.. how about viewing of the drivers license?? is that going too far?
just asking...


If you must do all of that, don't date anyone period in my opinion. You can never be too careful though I suppose

jacktrades's photo
Mon 05/30/16 08:12 PM
I would not be offended, I usually use a stolen plate on my first date anyway..JK...

Destinysyours's photo
Mon 05/30/16 08:16 PM

I would not be offended, I usually use a stolen plate on my first date anyway..JK...


If I didn't have such a headache watching this game I would have fell out of my chair! LoL

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Tue 05/31/16 03:07 AM


Well first of all.....on a first date.....she doesn't get close to my vehicle. Lol!

Those key scratches should buff right out.smile2


Some jealous prik scratched my cars bumper severely while it was parked near the gym it even had a hole in it. I had to get it fixed & sprayed. Whoever it was got lucky for not getting severely assaulted by me coz i love my beautiful car

Destinysyours's photo
Tue 05/31/16 03:15 AM
Bumpers /cars can be repairs. Lives on the other hand can't. I would be mad as well if it happened to me. I had my cars messed with in the passed. Thats the downfall of having luxury vehicles.

Now back on topic:

I wouldn't want anyone taking pictures of anything that belongs to me without my permission. Ask me first, BEFORE we go out. If a person is that precautious they can: 1) Don't go out anywhere with me and 2) Get to know me for at least 6months or more before we meet.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 05/31/16 03:31 AM



Hmm. Is that so? I would think the woman is crazy, just as I would think the man is. Women can be coo coo too

Many ppl tell women to actually have a safety net, to always make sure they're safe. And I am all for that too. Depending on where you go of course, and when. During the day for a coffee, slightly different from meeting at night.
I have been there when I sent info on the guy I was going to meet to my safety net ... You just don't know what kind of wacko you're going to meet. And in general men are still stronger than women which makes women more vulnerable.
Friend of mine had a bloke from a dating site turn up at her door out of the blue, and she NEVER gave him her address ... What if he had been a fruitcake?
You simply cannot be careful enough. In the past most men had respect for women, these days not so much.


Indeed I concur.

The question that most seem to dodge is, what if it is two women meeting f2f for the first time? Is it okay then? Is it not okay?

You mean as friends? I would find that odd. Very odd. Red flags. And I sure as heck would not appreciate her taking a photo of my license plate. And probably try to stop her, but I can imagine I'd feel so flabbergabbered that I'd be slow to react.
If another woman did that when we were to meet for a friendly get-together, I sure as heck would make sure I'd have details on her too, just in case.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 05/31/16 03:32 AM

I would not be offended, I usually use a stolen plate on my first date anyway..JK...

laugh

Destinysyours's photo
Tue 05/31/16 04:50 AM




Hmm. Is that so? I would think the woman is crazy, just as I would think the man is. Women can be coo coo too

Many ppl tell women to actually have a safety net, to always make sure they're safe. And I am all for that too. Depending on where you go of course, and when. During the day for a coffee, slightly different from meeting at night.
I have been there when I sent info on the guy I was going to meet to my safety net ... You just don't know what kind of wacko you're going to meet. And in general men are still stronger than women which makes women more vulnerable.
Friend of mine had a bloke from a dating site turn up at her door out of the blue, and she NEVER gave him her address ... What if he had been a fruitcake?
You simply cannot be careful enough. In the past most men had respect for women, these days not so much.


Indeed I concur.

The question that most seem to dodge is, what if it is two women meeting f2f for the first time? Is it okay then? Is it not okay?

You mean as friends? I would find that odd. Very odd. Red flags. And I sure as heck would not appreciate her taking a photo of my license plate. And probably try to stop her, but I can imagine I'd feel so flabbergabbered that I'd be slow to react.
If another woman did that when we were to meet for a friendly get-together, I sure as heck would make sure I'd have details on her too, just in case.


There is a very funny ending to this story by the way... Remind to to share it with you in your Inbox.

Oh by the way, you are really wearing that hat well :ok_hand:

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Tue 05/31/16 04:54 AM

Bumpers /cars can be repairs. Lives on the other hand can't. I would be mad as well if it happened to me. I had my cars messed with in the passed. Thats the downfall of having luxury vehicles.

Now back on topic:

I wouldn't want anyone taking pictures of anything that belongs to me without my permission. Ask me first, BEFORE we go out. If a person is that precautious they can: 1) Don't go out anywhere with me and 2) Get to know me for at least 6months or more before we meet.

6 months before I can shoot video?....you're killing me, baby.sad2

Destinysyours's photo
Tue 05/31/16 05:01 AM
Yup, why rush? See for me I don't use the I internet to find dates. In real life I try my best to fight ppl off of me. So having a friend that is not interested in me is what I seek.

But if not, chatting is cool. In perfectly okay with that. I have chatted with someone for 11 years before I actually met the person. No one was anxious or eager. We were happy with chatting.

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Tue 05/31/16 05:18 AM
Cops do it with license plate readers all the time. So guess it wouldn't matter.

mightymoe's photo
Tue 05/31/16 05:47 AM

Cops do it with license plate readers all the time. So guess it wouldn't matter.


maybe destinys friend was an undercover fed? shocked scared

Destinysyours's photo
Tue 05/31/16 05:53 AM


Cops do it with license plate readers all the time. So guess it wouldn't matter.


maybe destinys friend was an undercover fed? shocked scared


Now didn't you read my disclaimer!!! Grrrrr. Not my friend. But you are very warm. Actually you hit the Jackpot with that guess!!!! You with a bag a Cheetos baby boy. I get to have your finger tips though. Deal?

mightymoe's photo
Tue 05/31/16 06:14 AM



Cops do it with license plate readers all the time. So guess it wouldn't matter.


maybe destinys friend was an undercover fed? shocked scared


Now didn't you read my disclaimer!!! Grrrrr. Not my friend. But you are very warm. Actually you hit the Jackpot with that guess!!!! You with a bag a Cheetos baby boy. I get to have your finger tips though. Deal?


anything for a bag of cheetos...love

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 05/31/16 06:24 AM





Hmm. Is that so? I would think the woman is crazy, just as I would think the man is. Women can be coo coo too

Many ppl tell women to actually have a safety net, to always make sure they're safe. And I am all for that too. Depending on where you go of course, and when. During the day for a coffee, slightly different from meeting at night.
I have been there when I sent info on the guy I was going to meet to my safety net ... You just don't know what kind of wacko you're going to meet. And in general men are still stronger than women which makes women more vulnerable.
Friend of mine had a bloke from a dating site turn up at her door out of the blue, and she NEVER gave him her address ... What if he had been a fruitcake?
You simply cannot be careful enough. In the past most men had respect for women, these days not so much.


Indeed I concur.

The question that most seem to dodge is, what if it is two women meeting f2f for the first time? Is it okay then? Is it not okay?

You mean as friends? I would find that odd. Very odd. Red flags. And I sure as heck would not appreciate her taking a photo of my license plate. And probably try to stop her, but I can imagine I'd feel so flabbergabbered that I'd be slow to react.
If another woman did that when we were to meet for a friendly get-together, I sure as heck would make sure I'd have details on her too, just in case.


There is a very funny ending to this story by the way... Remind to to share it with you in your Inbox.

Oh by the way, you are really wearing that hat well :ok_hand:

Oh, I'd like to hear that!
And thanks, Destiny! flowerforyou

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