Have you ever found yourself in a situation that all you wanted to do was right your wrongs even if it meant losing everything. I'm having one of those days and my Conscience is kicking my ***. I am finding as I grow and excel My mind is wrapped around this one single event from my past something I did and it's preventing me to move forward. I don't know if you've ever found yourself in this situation if you have could you be of help and tell me what you did to make things right.

You haven't given us much to go on.

There are all kinds of regrets, which can be described the way you have. Solutions or hints would depend on what kind of problem you've made for yourself.

Is it romantic? Ethical? Financial? Criminal? Entirely personal? Physical? You have a tattoo that can't be removed?

Some things HAVE TO HAVE professional involvement. Get it, for the parts of whatever this is that require them.

I specialize in problem solving. Mainly for machines, but the logic of all problem solving is pretty much the same.

It always has to start with an accurate recognition of exactly what the problem is. The most difficult to solve problems, are of the kind where putting a label to what the problem is, is the first intransigent challenge.


Psychological problems, and problems which affect your psychology, are the toughest to put a label to, because most of the time, hiding from yourself is a part of the problem.

Anyway. The second step, whether you come up with a label or not, is to break the symptoms and the core problem down to it's constituent parts, so that you can deal with them individually.

For example, if your problem is financial, unless it's one big debt, you address each bill separately.

Address each symptom or aspect of the problem.

Like, there's what you did exactly, whatever that was. Is it something that you can do something to make up for, or is it something where you have to find a way to forgive yourself, and accept that you did this dastardly deed?

Wow..tricky.

Righting the conscience can be an epiphany.
Righting the current you, can also mitigate the past.

Righting the past, without details, it will be a matter
of whether a clear conscience is worth 'losing all.'

Its criminal, now as a single parent and buisness owner it's popping up and idk what to do turn myself in five my child to the state while I do time or live in fear and hope it doesn't catch up to me. I want to do the right thing but man I have a lot to loose and it's out of state so it makes it even harder

Clearly, what you need to do, is to find a good lawyer. That's no easy task, but it is the place to start. There's no way for you to MAKE a decision, without knowing what your possibilities are.

Humm putting it on the internet is not your best thought..

I would say get a good Lawyer leave your stuff off the internet and go from there..

Humm if it is popping up then someone has to know what you did.


Too much missing here to put a thought to it... If it is a criminal offense well then I'm not going to say sure hide what you did.. Shss who knows what you did had to be more then parking tickets or a hit and run..

If you do the Crime then you need to do the Time~~~

Yep. Depending on what it exactly was, if you have since proven that you have led a righteous life, the right lawyer can at least make sure you get the most big-picture justice.

But yes, if you really do want to make things right, and lead a life going forward that is best for your child, you will need to legally resolve things, no matter the cost.

Your right. I will have to make plans and do the time at least I won't have to live looking over my shoulders it's a small offense to be honest. I would've resolved it already just its all the way across America which makes it so hard ugh

Great advice from Igor Frankensteen. It is so refreshing seeing such great advice to this person who was clearly having a moment to put his life right. RedRoverLB you are doing the right thing by law, be proud of youself for making a good decision.

..hmm.all the way across America...hmmmm... well if you're lucky they will Deport you back to the America... free of charge.... you should check out Disneyland while you're there...