im heart broken,i dont know wat to say i never felt this way,!!!!!!!!!!!!0mg prolly the wrong thread i went too see him in prison again,im sorry to hi jack this thread,im lost confused....alot of my friends know wats going on,!!!!!!!!!!!!!!some think im an ass for waitin,going to see him but i cant seem to get a grasp on it all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!maybe its questions unanswred,who knows.....ok to all that dont know,the guy i fell in love with is in jail,and his going away for a long time,maybe life!!!!!!!!!!!!i keep going to see him and i shouldnt i know but i have questions,do i wait for him,people in my life have told me to carry on,i know they are right but why cant i???????????????

I think I've entered the twighlight zone

do do doooooooo do do do

is this a trick question?

being sympathetic to his challenging future is fine... but he got himself in this mess he's in, unless he''s been wrongly eaten alive by the system

How can that be healthy for you? How can that change his consequences? How could it be that you crave a caged man's attentions?

We all must govern our own actions. We must all come to grips with the uncertainties of life and make choices. you're entitled to grieve and mourn his demise and move on with your life.

besides, just what did you teach the girly girls' boyfriend?

Kind of sounds like Co-Dependancy! Let go, feel your feelings and move on.

what klc and wouldee said makes alot of sense. letting go might be the best thing!

geees just wat i need sulkcasism???im a mess already and thanks for makin me feel worse

Knock knock, anyone there?

roll eyes in me head till I go dissy, it only happens on the internet, alot hahahahahahaha

sin..................omg ur wrong but than again u dont know me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wtf i just asked advise and all u lot seem to is mock me!!

Want a serious answer from me? Get away from that guy and move on.

That is what you should do. Do you know why I gave a sarcastic answer first? Because I doubt you will follow that advice.

That's why.

bingo

if you wont listen to your friends why would you listen to us?....but here goes....if a guy does something that gets him put away for life he's probably someone you don't need in your life.

Stacey, you fell in love with a man who committed a big enough felony to possibly go to gaol for a life term?

Where and when was this?

Is he the father of your kids? I am so confused.

Weren't you single just a little while ago?

So when did you meet him?

And where?

Aren't you in the UK, or in Canada now?

Am I wrong??? Your story is wrong and you deserved to be mocked, why because you asked for it when you put youself on this open forum. what do you expect me to say, you have a healthy fiture with this jailbird?? come on anyone with the right mind will cut their loses and get a healthier relationship. I am not even going to ask why he is in jail for...its easy if you say he is in there for life. Grow up woman!!!!!!

what she wants is for all of us to say is she so wonderful for sticking with the guy. i'm with you sincere. so blah blah blah blah blah sassy blah.

are we really mocking you and not giving advice while you're embattled with run away emotions?

i've heard you respond twice with a bigger concern to feed a pity party than anything else.

step away from the table you're eating from. the food has gone bad!!

sincere its hard too,i know i should but can i?i dont know....i want too but the fact remains i love him,or maybe not,!!!the reality i should stop going to see him...i know that much but i cant..he calls,i go,PRETTY PATHETIC i know!!!I cry everytime i go see him!!!!!!!!!IM only expressin wat i feel here cos i cant tell my family how i feel or that i go see him even!!

Let me put this in a new and interesting way.

Don't be a fool, get rid of him before you destroy the rest of your life by staying with a complete piece of garbage like him.
Get out while you can so you can get a REAL life and have something worth looking forward to.

It is simple, lose the idiot and find a new man.

Geeze why in the world is that so difficult to understand?

I am in the twilight zone I swear it.

He doesn't love you, ...he is telling you everything nice you want to hear to keep you close to him because he will need that, now he is locked up for a very long time.