attitude not good....only make you look stupid

Geez....a touch of threat and anger their...

You have three threads up moaning about how lonely you are, your heart is broken, you cant sleep because you miss your baby, and you are bored with single life...


Ummm hello?


Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what's going on here.

look who has ya kid...it tells ya alot

Stop pointing the finger at your ex, time to accept that you fooked bad and make changes not invite more problems in your life.

cant we just play nice

lol

Holy psycho outbursts batman!!!

yea i am lonely and bored with single life does that make me a bad person... no! i dont mean that i need a relationship or a **** buddy i need some friends so i am not sitting at home every night by myself

and how exactly did i mess up with my baby? i didnt. all i did was threaten to leave him and take her with me

nah no psycho outbursts just hate when people have all the answers when they arent in the situation. i am perfectly calm

Umm, you asked for answers and now you are getting them.

The thing is Red, how do you know we have not been in this situation, or supported others through similar?

You have two women, in their late thirties and early forties, offering suggestions on how to get your life on track, and not create more drama, and you dont like what you're hearig, so go off slang obscenities and making threats.

What does that tell you?

didnt get answers.. got judgement.. ok all you people with all the answers what did i do wrong and what can i do that i havent already done

I believe I saw some good answers so maybe go back and read through them to start with.

i am not making threats but you have no clue all the details of this.. i have hundreds of pages of documents but i cannot get anyone in the system to listen to me... he failed drug tests for the court and they swept it under the rug and all he has to do is say i have a drug problem and she gets taken from me. they did hair follicle and breast milk tests for drugs and i was clean i have NEVER done drugs. but his family supervises my case and they will not change her because she is only related to him by marriage

i said things i havent already tried

First of all Red, everyone that is above the age of 30 in here has gone through some kind of ordeal with custody or something...even us guys. We are not judging you...we are just telling you from experience. It is not easy to be going through what you are going through. I have seen it, I work in law enforcement and I see it a good bit of the time. But we are not judging you sweetie, we don't judge people in here. If asked for advice we give it from how we have experienced it and got over it. We are only trying to help the best way we see fit.

dont get mad at me pls,but if what u say is true,then theres gotta be something mroe on your side that your hiding cause the system isnt that bad.

Listen to yourself....you find more power thinking about yourself, no wonder your child is not in your care. Thats selfish! You are not accepting responsibilities except to point the finger at others but you. Its all ya own words. No one said you can't have a social life but it seems that is more important to you. Smart guys should run unless all they want is some booty.

Red, I copied and pasted this just for you...where it says man put yourself in place of it and start being strong and positive...

My Oath To Betterment

I promise to be
The man I need to be
Not only for myself
But when I fall to my knee.

To be the father
My girls can look up too,
To be positive
No matter in what I do.

To follow the right paths
And make myself whole,
These things and more
Will always be my goal.

I'm going to be the man
Because I am the man,
I'm going to be strong
And to make my stand.

For the love I lost
And mistakes I have made,
With positive thinking
I will make the grade.

Who knows what will be, or
What the future will hold,
For me not to worry
Live for the present is what I'm told.

So I will better myself
And live it one day at a time,
No more worries for me
I will be just fine.

lonelyred,

So the reason your child is not with you is because your ex says you do drugs? And you said you don't do drugs and you passed all of your drug tests?

If that is the case, you would have custody so I agree with orange, there is something else going on here.