lol

just in case you don't, take a bus or a cab to the city.

I'm still trying to figure this out...

1. Split with ex seven months ago.

2. Child to ex, (?), he has custody of. hmmm that brings up a big why?

3. You live in the back blocks of nowhere.

4. There are no single men where you are, but you feel guilty looking at them anyways.

5. But bugger it. you will anyways.


In all of this, what are you doing about your kid?

Who's more important?

Geez...I'm lost.

you are right he will mess up..he has i have it all documented but after work, school, and visitation i still wanna have a little fun

You should only feel guilty if your both related. Cousins counts. Otherwise, go nuts.

And let me tell you, I live near a major college, am quite social, and can't find a girl to keep my attention for more than five minutes. If I wanted to talk about Britney Spears and cell phones, I'd just cut off my ear and save myself a headache.

Were all alone, that's why we're here.

i pay my child support.. never miss my visitation and i take care of her as much as i am allowed my baby is def most important. thats why i just put a 7500 dollar retainer on the best attorney around. i am a good mom. even moms can have some fun. dont judge me my kids come first. i did nothing wrong he has family that works in the courts and i had told him if he didnt stop smoking weed me and the baby were leaving and he took her before i could

I am just amazed that he got custody over you...


I don't know enough about the legal system there.

In my opinion, in my world, there is no fun, as you call it.

Until my kids are back with me through every court in the bloody country if it takes it,, settled, and safe, and our world is travelling perfectly as it should.


That's just me though, my kids come first...above me.

Sounds like one of those "it's not what you know, it's who know" type deals.

it is and jess my kids come first over me i just spent money i aint really got to hire the head of the american civil liberties union to represent me and i have court pending in 3 counties. the one i live in the one he lives in and the one i do my visits in so how the hell do you figure my kids arent being put first

considering his aunt works at cps, his sister is at the clerk of courts and his best friend is at the sherriffs office.. and i know no one out there it is who you know

sincere...why don't you lend her ya bicycle, or you could dinky her to see her baby, who is more important than the bloody blokes at this stage of her life

it isnt about me having fun really but doing something to stay positive and keep myself from getting too down about all of this

It doesn't matter if these people work there, if they abuse the system they are in trouble. You need to get your act together to show these people that you are able to care for your baby.

This is not about you and your ex, this is about your baby, the only innocent one.

Now you are wide awake....do you still want us to keep you awake? haha

develop friendships with girlfriends then...network and create strong supportive friendships.

Distractions are just that, they take your focus off what is most important.

And seriously, with all you have going on, what can a guy offer you? Sex? and a bit of flattery?


A woman who is confident, secure in her world is by far more attractive than one who has all these challenges in her life.

Sort your stuff, then get on with life, and when the time is right someone worthy will cross your path.

actually sin i have my own car my own place and my own friends i just wanna make more and i see my baby every time i am allowed i signed out of the hospital the same day of my surgery A.M.A so i wouldnt miss a visit so you can go somewhere else with that i would never let a man interfere with me being a mom

i am not looking for sex or any of that crap and believe me the caseworker has already said everything looks perfect for when i go to court i just have to wait till the date! and i have filed grievances with every office that they work in. and you are exactly why i dont have friends that are girls all you *****es do is run your **** suckers

i know how it is lonelyredhead i live in the country also,it gets very lonely at times!

well these other *****es on this who have their lives together have no clue but i am about to give them one

I was just playing about the bicycle part just to lighten the mood of the reality of your situation. Make you smile and not make you cry ...the same time tell you how it is and what you can do to help you

judging me and telling me everything i am doing wrong is supposed to help me how?