Does true love exist ?

hey

Yes. I believe so..

How do you know, you have not been here a week yet?

Ya gotta say more than just "hey sexy" or "wanna do it doggie?".

YES IT HAS TO BE EARNED THROUGH A DEDICATED COMMITMENT TO ANOTHER PERSON.....

Good things happen to those who wait. Patience! Patience! While in waiting, better your best to ensure you are ready 360 deg for the new responsibilities that come with marriage.
I know two couples who met online and are happily married. One living in the UK with their two kids. The other in Sweden with one kid. Yes, it is possible.

It dose anyway, maybe among the third world countries.

I don't think you do... I think you find the interest or spark, the if and when love grows it is between those two people and online is really out for it by then. JMHO

@flora, good confession! But why so? Mmmm...ever wondered why men from the 1st world countries are finding true love in women from 3rd world countries, and living happy with their family. The answer is within you, not outside.
And was there a salient tone of racism in that comment? Never mind gal....

Because it's damn hard to find true love everywhere. Online is just ONE of the places where it's hard.

Hi

Sure true love exists but generally it is only going to exist when you put as much into it as you hope to get out of it.

Been my experience it doesn't just fall out of the tree and land on your head.

Most people willing to give someone their true love they have to appear to be worthy of receiving it. You you exhibit honesty, kindness, reliability, loyalty, and maturity so that someone sees you as a good risk with their heart and life in general.

Are you a pleasure to encounter? It is not just a great body or a charismatic smile. You have to show character and manners. Have a clear agenda that is not self centered.

You have to play the game to win. Do you actually search what is going on in the world and who is available? It is a waste of time just wishing and whining. All the good ones are not gone.

Have you prepared for dating and have a budget to cover the time and expense of the search? This may be a free site but if you are not posting and effective profile and actually reading profiles sending and answering mail; more than time will slip through your fingers.

Well put, Pacific Star.

Hey

I've been doing this for 10 years. I've even done some customer service for one of the larger online dating services. I've learned a lot.

Reasons it's so hard to find love online, A lot of people don't take it seriously. A lot of people use online dating as their own personal playground. (2)Men and women that are only looking for sex. (Mostly men.) (3) Time wasters. They show up on site but hardly ever answer a message. (4) Too many people that are so full of themselves that no one is good enough online or in the real world of dating. (5) Then you have those that look at a picture and read a few words in a profile and think they know you. (6) Too many shallow people. To go out with one of these you have to look or be a certain way.(7) You may not believe the amount of people that lack social and conversational skills. Boring men and women that can't string enough words together to make a sentence.

I could go on. The list of reasons are almost endless. Some people screw themselves. They wonder why they can't find love online or out in the real world. They don't realize they are there own worst enemy.

Our mindsets and rules play a very great role in making it very difficult.
If only we understood that we were born to make mistakes and not to fake perfection, we could be setting some things right.
When I get to read profiles of people with a long list of the things they want in a man or a woman, it makes me sad. Strange they say are the ways of mother nature, and you can never know what she'll bring you at the break of a new dawn.
Finding something in nothing is what makes it "LOVE" unique.

Wow. I find that I disagree all OVER the place with this thinking.

Mainly, this gives me the strong impression that you think love is something that you get by treating yourself as a sort of craft project to sell at a fair.

And "you have to play the game"? Dangerous phrasing there, I hope you meant something else. If you want something "true," then treating it like a GAME, is the opposite of what you should be doing.

Yes, you need to look, and you need to be as open as you can be to someone looking for you, but if you want what you find to be "True" anything, you damn well better not put anything artificial into the process.