I tried in many places, then I came to JSH, still looking, then when I was about to give up, Love found me, in the form of Sandylou2456. We are now together and loving every second of it. We are planning on getting married soon, just havent set the date yet. Sandy and Wolfie

He may have chick magnet written all over him but I don't

Congrats Sandy and Wolfie There's hope for all of us.

Open, there is hope for anyone here, just dont get discouraged, hang in there, when you least expect it it will happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the company in here, make friends. Sandy and Wolfie

Funny thing, when i was not looking it found me. I wanted it after I got it but now I do not even want it no more. Man I just want a peace of mind. When you have been alone for a while it gets lonely. But man I will take the loneliness back for my freedom. Does that make any sense?

It makes more sense than you know shay, but it also means that the one you're with isn't the one for you.

I mean I have someone that I guess some1 who was really looking for him would feel like a queen, but juggling being a mother a woman and friend is just too much for me i feel. I feel like I am selfish in many ways but I am a mother first at all times and I like that life. Incorporating someone else in the picture is hard for me. I even have it that I just sent him on his way yesterday and he was willing to stay cause when he is gone I miss him but when he is here I dont want him here for long. I am so confused on what i want. I just been through it and think people have these motives that doesnt fit in my equation and rather not bother with it. I hope I am not going to end up as a miserable old woman dam near witch cause man this is crazy!

that makes sense Open. It really does. Thanks!