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Topic: sweetie, honey, angel, baby, baby girl, sugar, sexy
soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45351	Thu 04/07/16 03:59 PM
They all use what is in their arsenal. The words come at you like flamethrowers. I have also heard it is passed down through a secret male society..all those generic names are fashioned so they never have to remember your real name.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 04/07/16 04:00 PM
My ex girlfriend called me Mack Daddy Long Strokin......I didn't mind the pet name, but man....some guys would be crying about sexual harassment.

mirjitsu Joined Thu 04/07/16 Posts: 1	Thu 04/07/16 04:01 PM
Pet names are uncomfortable but comforting at the same time. I've never said them but I got used to hearing them.

choosetobe Joined Sat 04/02/16 Posts: 12	Thu 04/07/16 04:01 PM
hahaha.. too much :-)

choosetobe Joined Sat 04/02/16 Posts: 12	Thu 04/07/16 04:03 PM
Oh I don't mind pet names... but like I said earlier... that's AFTER you've started a relationship with someone.. they shouldn't be used when you're first meeting someone :-)

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Thu 04/07/16 04:09 PM
We live in 2016 .. I'm stunned that many men think it's okay to address a woman for the very first time by "sweetie, honey, angel, baby, baby girl, sugar, sexy"... Those are terms that should be reserved for a much closer/intimate relationship interested in your thoughts... ? So this is where I've been going wrong

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 04/07/16 04:25 PM
We live in 2016 .. I'm stunned that many men think it's okay to address a woman for the very first time by "sweetie, honey, angel, baby, baby girl, sugar, sexy"... Those are terms that should be reserved for a much closer/intimate relationship interested in your thoughts... ? So this is where I've been going wrong Well now you know.

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Thu 04/07/16 04:27 PM
Well, if all we have is your profile name, how shall we address you?... Hello there "SheDevil69"

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 04/07/16 04:32 PM
Oh I don't mind pet names... but like I said earlier... that's AFTER you've started a relationship with someone.. they shouldn't be used when you're first meeting someone :-) I agree with you. When I get a first email with "hello sweetheart" or something like it, I stop reading. It is a big turnoff for me.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 04/07/16 04:36 PM
Well, if all we have is your profile name, how shall we address you?... Hello there "SheDevil69" Well, if that is her profile name, then is how you should address her. After all, she chose that profile name... she must like it.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Thu 04/07/16 04:37 PM
I always ask if it's just a way of not having to remember my name

lexielewis Joined Thu 04/07/16 Posts: 7	Thu 04/07/16 04:42 PM
I didn't have to read all before I agree with you...your so right ....going to finish reading now

mrjallenbrown Joined Mon 09/09/13 Posts: 53	Thu 04/07/16 07:25 PM
Well let the guy know that at first so he is aware, some guys do it because they think its flattering... not all guys are dating masters.. when you realize that it wouldnt be such a turn off, its more important traits then to let a a word such as "sweetie" turn you off.. makes no sense, go easy on these guys gosh!! $

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Thu 04/07/16 07:30 PM
Well let the guy know that at first so he is aware, some guys do it because they think its flattering... not all guys are dating masters.. when you realize that it wouldnt be such a turn off, its more important traits then to let a a word such as "sweetie" turn you off.. makes no sense, go easy on these guys gosh!! $ Sure thing Sweet Cheeks

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Thu 04/07/16 08:09 PM
i totally agree i do not think those men are genuine they probably call every woman they just met a "darling"

justadmirer Joined Sat 04/09/16 Posts: 2	Sat 04/09/16 08:39 AM
Agree with choosetobe

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sat 04/09/16 09:26 AM
If I were offended and stormed out of every diner where the waitress asked, "What are you having, Hun"... I would have starved to death years ago.

Owen Joined Sat 10/31/15 Posts: 7	Sat 04/09/16 09:32 AM
I don't like hearing that from someone I don't really know. Maybe after some time and only if I am attracted to that person

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Sat 04/09/16 10:44 AM
Whats in a name or term??? I have been using those terms for quite awhile now....and the women seem to like it...well, they have not slapped me on the head, so I guess,its a chance you take.....Know the woman before you say it to a newbie, just saying....

Kindlightheart Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 2370	Sat 04/09/16 11:12 AM
..yeah..terms of endearment should be after you know each other...but a lot of men don't mean to insult...but my most hated words are when women refer to their mate as "daddy"....that's just gross...imo