Topic: Hostility
Peachiepoohie's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:37 PM
You know, I go through a lot of posts on here...and it seems to me that
there are a lot of people who use the site to release pent up hostility
and anger. It's so unattractive to read all the "shit-talking" that
people post. Why do that? Geeeez, you can block someone from your mail
and ignore them here...so why is it that people insist on bringing
issues out into the public arena just to sling some mud?

I don't get it...

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:40 PM
im with you the he said she said got old in highschool

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Sun 11/05/06 02:40 PM
<sighs> Wish I knew Peachie...don't get it either all I know is that it
disturbs my inner being geatly so I just have to skip alot of posts

Peachiepoohie's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:41 PM
honestly, it's just so immature and ridiculous...and I agree CCP, it
upsets my zen...

Ontario's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:42 PM
huh...?

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Sun 11/05/06 02:43 PM
i think alot of it is pent up hostility like you said and because they
don't have to face the person it's directed at it makes it easier for
them because they don't have to take responsibility for it or face any
consequences. alot of people don't know how to deal with their emotions
so they take it out on someone else.

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Sun 11/05/06 02:45 PM
Well I shall return in a bit I am going to go make some chicken soup for
my soul, ok its really for my tummy lol I am one hungry bunny

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:45 PM
yeah totally bad karma

Ontario's photo
Sun 11/05/06 02:48 PM
Some people are way to sensitive and expect other people to realize
that. But you won,t know until somrthing happens...and by then it may be
to late.

To call attention to such things are a waste of time...its easier to
ignor hostility then engage it.

greeneyedlady42's photo
Sun 11/05/06 03:56 PM
For the most part you gotta figure we're just "unknowns" on a screen. It
is alot easier to "unleash" on those you have no ties
to than those you must face in real life everyday.
Sometimes we all lack the ability to deal with things in our own lives
head on and anger can become distorted and misdirected. Some dont handle
it well. So it ends up here.

The emotional dumping ground.
Unfortunately ppls feelings get hurt. We are here to find comfprt and
friendship maybe more. MAybe others are here for confrontation.

blue2110's photo
Sun 11/05/06 04:44 PM
I don't understand those people. Why can't we all just be nice.

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Sun 11/05/06 04:46 PM
maybe some just find it fun to bash stupid people lol i mean its no
different then the ones that constantly talk about gettin laid. I
happen to find it fun to rip on dumb people and I do it in the real
world too. Remember I said stupid people not ALL people. Thats just me
though there are some that just like to hurt veryone I reckon. I love
you all..........

Bad

Peachiepoohie's photo
Sun 11/05/06 04:56 PM
Bad:

Well, I guess it's good that you'll admit your evil tendencies. I try
not to bash the person, but I am happy to bring their ignorance to
light. Plus, sometimes I feel the need to prove that I'm not just some
dumb girl. I don't mind people's opinions being shared, but sometimes
the forums become a personal attack ground. Just seems so wrong to
me...it's one thing to wander off topic- but wandering off topic just so
you can attack someone is ludicrious...

Even though you bush stupidity (and can't ever get my damn name right)
I'll still get in a kid's pool full of Jell-O with ya! *ew*

TheShadow's photo
Sun 11/05/06 05:21 PM
LOL Ontario and his ( HUH? ) again.

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Sun 11/05/06 05:51 PM
Because Some People Cant Be Nice And It Brings Out The Anger In Others!

Chuckee's photo
Sun 11/05/06 06:30 PM
Wow, a wise man once said, "whhaaaaa whaaaaaa whhaaaaaaa!" I mean
C'MON!!! I'm the same person here as I am in the real world. And just
like anything else, if you don't like the environment you are in, LEAVE.
If your sensitive to whats being said on any given post, exit the post.
Addressing these are just like listening to a radio station or watching
t.v. you have a choice to change the channel. So how is your post any
different than any of the others? Your expressing yourself, so is
everyone else.