I wonder, TxsGal, what you will say if I told you that I'm unemployed. Would you still date me or toss me in the trash like "other" women seem to do all the time? How willing are you to live or be friends with a man who can't buy you anything or look after his own needs? Would you allow yourself to give this guy a chance? Would you do everything in your power to help him out (within reason, of course)? Would his level of "happiness" be worth anything to you? For some men, happiness is a job. Happiness can also be having the love of his life stay with him whether or not he has a job. Too often I've concluded women to be hollow when they don't reply to my messages. I assume they don't want me due to my lack of a job or degrees in advanced fields. I might be wrong, but this is my point of view. I can't believe anyone will want me because they don't care about love. They only care about money. Nobody in my position gets a chance. Nobody.

This is my dilemma and I would sorely love to get an answer for this. If you cannot give me an answer, I'll assume that to indicate the "true" you when faced with this. I'll assume that you are one of those who says one thing but isn't really committed to it. Your thoughts? Thank you.

A recent survey suggested that Archaeologists tend to have the most long lasting relationships of all professionals, why should this be?