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How on earth does that happen?
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For one...it just happens on earth. And secondly it takes two to make it happen, otherwise it could fall in to a dangerous category...all I am saying....
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How on earth does that happen? Maybe easier for a girl than a guy |
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Ah! the truth and nothing but the truth...so help me Rusty....
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How on earth does that happen? Two people.... A crowded room.... Maybe a few drinks.... Your eyes meet.... You look away.... You both look back.... One of you makes an approach.... Words are spoken.... Or not.... Your place or theirs.... Bodily fluids are exchanged.... But.... Ultimately you leave physically satisfied.... But emotionally unsatisfied.... |
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Edited by
IgorFrankensteen
on
Wed 03/16/16 01:46 PM
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Most commonly, it is a result.
If it's your primary GOAL, then you have to adjust how you behave. There are two basic methods I have witnessed: 1. Lie and say that you are searching for a true love, be very charming and solicitous (or rude and annoying, if you want to try the "negging" approach), and chat with your target person until they indicate a willingness to boink with you. Alcohol is often involved. Regardless of how well things go, make certain that you never return or speak to the person again. Lying about who you are often helps make sure of this. The result is a One Night Stand. 2. Try your best to be honest and forthcoming, communicate clearly, and search earnestly for an actual mate. Then, when you finally find someone who wants to give you a sexual try, you enjoy this, and cross your fingers (figuratively). When you or the other person finds that your evening of sexual experimentation is unsatisfactory in some way, you or they resolve never to repeat it. The result is now called a O.N.S. |
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Are we talking about what is in the night stand?
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Are we talking about what is in the night stand?
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well contrary to a popular misconception on the topic
standing may or may not be involved I do believe kicking someone out or getting da hell out of there by daylight is 
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Are we talking about what is in the night stand?
How about what is on top of it? The one night stand by my bed has on it a lamp, a cordless phone, a box of facial tissue and an alarm clock. |
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Are we talking about what is in the night stand?
What is in it? Hopefully condoms! ---> Durex, men leave home without it! And even if they don't, you wanna be sure the danged thing isn't past its sell-by date. And at least if you have him use your own, you know it hasn't been in his back pocket or wallet for at least 6 months and got so fumbled it possibly has holes or tears in it. No one wants a bun in the oven! So in the (one) night stand ... condoms! |
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And whose fault is it, that its been in the hip pocket, all fumbled and has a tear or hole in it.....we guys were all scouts at one time...be prepared, was the motto drilled into our young minds..lol...
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Often ita a result of just letting them know you're up for it, and that youe won't think anything less of them if they are too
I think the reason many people don't get what they want. ..is simply because they don't ask. People are afraid of being judged, if you can make them feel safe you'd be surprised what people will do, especially in Vegas
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Often ita a result of just letting them know you're up for it, and that youe won't think anything less of them if they are too I think the reason many people don't get what they want. ..is simply because they don't ask. People are afraid of being judged, if you can make them feel safe you'd be surprised what people will do, especially in Vegas
Ah! Vegas.....what happens in......Pay and you could receive....ask and you will be told the price....hmmmmm!!! |
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Are we talking about what is in the night stand?
What is in it? Hopefully condoms! ---> Durex, men leave home without it! And even if they don't, you wanna be sure the danged thing isn't past its sell-by date. And at least if you have him use your own, you know it hasn't been in his back pocket or wallet for at least 6 months and got so fumbled it possibly has holes or tears in it. No one wants a bun in the oven! So in the (one) night stand ... condoms!
But I appreciate your message 
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Often ita a result of just letting them know you're up for it, and that youe won't think anything less of them if they are too I think the reason many people don't get what they want. ..is simply because they don't ask. People are afraid of being judged, if you can make them feel safe you'd be surprised what people will do, especially in Vegas
Ah! Vegas.....what happens in......Pay and you could receive....ask and you will be told the price....hmmmmm!!! I don't know about you but I don't have to pay for much in Vegas...booze are cheap, and most people are there to do something 'they've never done before'...but that's my experience 
as far as one night stands I stick by my original ask, be open, honest, and judgement free |
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For one...it just happens on earth. 
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Often ita a result of just letting them know you're up for it, and that youe won't think anything less of them if they are too I think the reason many people don't get what they want. ..is simply because they don't ask. People are afraid of being judged, if you can make them feel safe you'd be surprised what people will do, especially in Vegas
Ah! Vegas.....what happens in......Pay and you could receive....ask and you will be told the price....hmmmmm!!! I don't know about you but I don't have to pay for much in Vegas...booze are cheap, and most people are there to do something 'they've never done before'...but that's my experience
as far as one night stands I stick by my original ask, be open, honest, and judgement free Yup, there is no accounting for some people's taste.... |
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my very serious relationship started as a one night stand - when i was very very young
we then kept standing for about another 500+ nights. |
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In the 80's and 90's my favorite "pickup" place was the dance clubs. You'd ask some one for a dance, sit and talk dance a couple of hours with different gals. Then at the end of the night you had about 5 or 8 possible canidates. You'd narrow it down to 3 more dances and drinks. By closing time you'd ask or they would ask. Then it was off to a pre-brokered hotel for a night cap. Then they would either spend the night or not. For me the socializing and dancing was already fun. The one night stand would be the dessert!
Sometimes a fling would develope. Varying from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. Dance hall gals were also very phisically fit. Ciao! |
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