You left out... his package..
Just trying to help you out brother..lol

I'm easily attracted to aman who dresses neatly in casual wear or suit, but i find casual styles makes a man look sexy, i dont like a dirty looking man. Then when he talks , his voice will attract me or put me off, i'm easily put off by a guy who sounds like a woman.I like a deep masculine voice.

... now there's a man who knows women

I am however not sure if it is the very first thing my eyes go to. I think it's eyes first, but 'package' definitely follows shortly thereafter.
I think
1 eyes
2 body in general, if that passes the test it's No3
3 teeth... of course he'd have to smile If they pass the test it's No4
4 Package

I must admit, package may be higher up in the list, depending on the situation
And if an impressive package enters my field of view first, the rest suddenly seems to become less important?

What's on my mind when I see someone really attractive? If he appears to be nice... erm ... what do you think? Hormones kick in, take over rather, lol.
If he's an a-hole the hormones may still kick in, but the mind doesn't agree.

I assume you are talking solely on looks. When I see a man for the first time? I probably notice hair. After that, just kind of the whole person, and their body-type. I like average built. I don't like a really skinny guy that a wind storm will blow away, or I can beat up. I don't want a man with a big gut. I don't like a lot of muscles. Just an average guy, and not too tall. Next, I would say, if I'm close enough to notice, nice teeth and smile. So, I will say, nice hair, healthy/average build, nice teeth and dresses casual but clean. I notice someone wearing jeans, which I like. Being honest.

I was only going by, when I see a guy across a room for the first time. My first reaction.

from across the room? height...I ain't a dating no manlet..

when I approach him?
smile and teeth
eyes..are they looking into mine or somewhere else
chin..ya I know ...have a thing about weak chins

built..no caved in chest skinny types

For me I think it is demeanor.

You can tell just looking at a guy
if he 'owns' it..himself that is.

I like an attitude, whatever it is.
Something that says 'look within me,
there is more.'

Even silence is loud if a spark arcs.

I feel pretty much the same way.

That leaves Pee Wee Herman out.

Thank you! You always ask good questions :)

Interesting thread, Toby.

Now I have a question for you:

What about you? Tell me please, what exactly do you look for in a woman?
Thank you.

hmmm, someone tall; someone generous in nature and easy-going; he likes music and is out-going... that'll be a good start.

I go straight for the heart of the man. His looks are not that important.

I thought that the topic was, what I thought when I first "SAW" a man, what did I think. What do I notice. I guess I was wrong.

Well, if I am face to face with a man, the first thing would probably be a smile and nice teeth. Then, good eye contact.

Well, thank you.

The eyes are the door to the soul.

If I am close enough to the face, I like kind eyes and a winsome smile.


I also notice broad shoulders and flat abs.

And ummmmmm...

Okay .

Well everybody and their dog probably know by now that I hate being short

...which makes me feel really guilty for saying that I actually have a thing for tall men.

A really tall guy asked me once if I would go on a date with him.


"But you'll won't be able to see me all the way from up there!!!!" was my squeaky reply.

With a twinkle in his eye and a mischievous grin spreading across his face, he replied:-

Some things are worth bending down for..."

(WOWIE-WOWIE-WOWZAAAAAA!!!!!!! )

i always state
beauty is the eye
of the beholder

not after a man that
has money
that doesnt by happiness
or love

i would be very happy
to live in a log cabin
out in the woods

if a man has a job
any job that would make him
happy thats all what would truly count

but i would love
to have a strong spiritual soul
and have the guy show me
the world through his heart and eyes

.. and if I might add...
Andover 4....wink..WHAT!! You had to guess that was coming...lol