It's easy to say you would wait. But most of you know the truth that you
would not. So when I hear a few men say they would wait. Knowing how you
been on this site. Hate to tell you this but your full of it. Stop
trying to look good for the ladys and be yourself.

some of us are "being our selves here"...just as you are showing your
self as well. To be honest with you.

Yeah, but you haven't been on this site as long as I have :)

And besides that, Most of us would not be hear on this site if we were
looking for that.

Stay with her and wait for the right time to have sex.

dont get so serious people it was only a Hypothetical question.

Its hard to find a girl thats not a whore these days, so i'm saying if
your looking for a bag hoe then cut her lose, but if you want someone
thats true, you better hold onto this one ;).

WELL IT WAS STILL YOUR REASIONING THAT PROPOSED THE HYPOTHETICAL
QUESTION? AND ONTARIO, I'M ONLY GOING TO GUESS HERE, BUT YOU WILL
PROBABLY GET ALOT OF NEGITIVE REPLIES TO YOUR COMMENT?
I BELIEVE THAT ALOT OF YOUNG LADIES THAT HAVE REFRAMED FROM HAVING SEX
THROUGH THEIR TEENAGE YEARS, WOULD STILL WANT TO ONLY GIVE THAT TO (THE)
MAN THAT THEY BELIEVED WAS GOING TO BE THEIR HUSBAND AND MATE FOR LIFE?
NOW THE PROBLEM IN LIFE WITH THESE WOMEN IS THAT SOME-ASSHOLE
DUDE WILL PRETEND TO HER AND SAY ANYTHING TO ACHIEVE GETTING HER IN
BED?---THEN LEAVE HER, BECAUSE HE GOT WHAT SHE FIRST SAID THAT HE
COULD'NT GET?
ME, I HAVE NEVER WANTED TO TAKE A CHICK'S VIRGINITY, NOR HAVE I.
MY THOUGHTS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THAT THERE WAS ENOUGH GUYS IN THE WORLD
THAT JUST LOVE TO BE THE ONE TO DO THAT FOR HER?
THAT I WOULD'NT NEED TO BE THE ONE TO START HER OUT ON ALL
THAT GOES ALONG WITH LOSING HER VIRGINITY?
MOST CHICKS THAT ARE VIRGINS THE DUDE THEY GIVE IT UP TO, SHE FEELS SHE
HAS ALREADY FELL IN LOVE WITH THATS WHY SHE LET HIM?
WHEN I WAS 17 I TALKED TO ABOUT 6 CHICKS THAT ALL LOST IT TO THE SAME
DUDE? I JUST THOUGHT THAT WAS CRAZY AND HE NEVER WENT OUT WITH ANY OF
THEM AGAIN? WHAT-A-GUY? ONE GIRL TRIED TO KILL HER SELF OVER IT? SO
SEE I DID'NT WANT LOVE, AND NEVER LIED ABOUT IT? I JUST WANTED TO HAVE
SEX AND DATING BUT NOT MARRAGE?
BUT IT WORKED, AND I DID'NT HAVE TO LIE?

You don't really have to wait for her. Just die a Martyr and there will
be seven (or how ever many they give you now)in heaven and they don't
wait I think. Wait! What if you get seven virgins and they make you wait
for eternity. LOL! I guess then you didn't die a Martyr but a fool.

im not actually dating a virgin i never even said i was dating
anyone,it was a simple question so why did everyone take it and fly off
the handle.but it's cool evryone is entitled to their thoughts and
opinions.

HEY PROPHET/

I REPLIED TO YOUR HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION? WITHOUT GETTING IN ANYWAY
PERSONAL WITH-YA?

I ANSWERED IT (hypotheticaly) BUT HONEST, BECAUSE THERE WILL BE ALOT OF
YOUNGER THAN ME READERS WHO MIGHT THINK ABOUT THEIR (real) FEELINGS AND
THOUGHTS ON THIS MATTER?
I JUST GAVE MY EXPERIENCE THROUGH LIFE AS EXAMPLES TO WHAT I WITNESSED?
WHY ARE YOU TAKING ANSWER'S TO YOUR HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION SO
NEGATIVELY, TO THE HYPOTHETICAL ANSWER'S?

WOULD THAT NOT BE A HYPOTHETICAL ATTITUDE?

I only spoke of th' mistakes,that I made,
hoping to "lead by example"...

my first "virgin"...WE still love each other,as friends...
but my second one,we got in too much of a hurry,sex too soon...
we both made mistakes,but never spoke afterwards,again?
so I live and learn,nobody got hurt,just didn't get along.

would rather ,these days,find more expertise,and experence,
is less stressful,and more mature,open minded people...some...

by no means am i getting at mad or anything like that,it just looked
like everyone was coming at me.too everybody here lets keep it fun and
light hearted like its been.

I thought I was?

But, to put it simply?
Shit bro, its all good?
Just gotta get through all the hyp-ta-get-ta-all the heart,dawg?

PEACE, LOVE, AND BE REAL?

To reply to Ontario-
Some women arent all about the "act" of sex. There are women who can get
thru the day without thinking about some cocky self absorbed in their
bed for a fleeting moment. I waited and am still waiting 7 yrs now. To
me the act is not worth anything with out the emotional investment and
that takes time.

Meanwhile I dont have any diseases or any sabar tooth crotch crickets
either. and when I do give myself to someone it will be for real and
they wont have to worry about last months boyfriend banging on the door
while we're trying to watch a movie or eat dinner.
Any female can be a woman but can she be a lady?
Maybe you're having a tough time cuz you need to change your approach
and start thinking with your heart alittle.

Just depends on what your after...if its just a peice of ass then she is
probably not for you.....if your looking for a good christain wife then
she might be the one

ahmen brother crazy man...

By your nature you'll try any how so, there's no sense in asking if
you'd just wait (smile). But you should hang on to her and try to
understand whatever it is that she understands! Besides, if she's a
virgin and she wants you to hang around, you might learn some things
about yourself that might make you pat yourself on the back. (Of course
you could learn this from any woman.)

For me it would depend how long we had been dating and how close we
were. But I don't think I would just cut her loose and I would
certainly not push the issue. She might change her mind and she might
not, but if she isn't someone I might think of marrying then I don't
think I would be with her in the first place. So yeah, I'd wait if
that's what she wanted. *grin* besides she might be eager to learn a
few things from me so it would definately be worth it in the long run.
lol

Shit... well put iam4u

greeneyedlady42 has a good point also... I've been waiting for a year
(since my last relationship) for someone I think will be more than an
instant gratification. I could have all that I wanted but when it's all
said and done you are left empty and needing more. Wait for the right
one and tough through the ups and downs and you have something worth
keeping.