If she means a lot to you and you can see yourself marrying her, you may wish to bite the bullet and wait. You may be surprised to find she may not wait that long if you've been good to her in the meantime. You can do lots of other things instead that will be satisfying. If you don't think she's the one, or if you just can't wait, move on. It's not fair to either of you to stay and push.

For me, the best is to have sex with someone I care about. But.......it's been a long time and my sex drive is telling me to find something NOW! Lol, I am not a slut and I do care about a woman's feelings, but I have to be honest with myself. I have needs and I would like for them to be met. We all do.

I never would have considered a just sex thing when I was younger, but I realize life is short and I haven't found anyone to settle down with yet. In the meantime, I would be open to that sort of thing. Just to take the edge off so, when I do meet someone special, I don't try to jump too soon.

You have to respect peoples choices in life.

I personally don't believe or ever want to get married so I would leave her if marriage is her only way.

If you cant respect her wishes,and she isnt worth waiting for to you,then move on and let the poor girl go

I would date her but she would not be the only one.

I will not commit to buying a car unless I drive it first. Likewise I will not commit at all unless I am getting a taste of what I should expect with a woman I would be spending the rest of my life with.

If she is for real she will prove she really wants you by her actions which speak louder than words. It would suck to have a wife that cannot even partially meet my physical demands and I have heard all that psycho babel about compromise but what room is there for compromise if the woman you are married to is not sexually compatible and you find that out after getting married? The only compromise would be for her to either let me have a second wife to take the pressure off of her or get divorced. It is not a family if you are not happy!

I have heard that phrase "you cannot get free milk from a cow."
Well, you can get salmonella for free from a cow! That and marriages have nothing to do with cattle. It sucks but marriages are comparable to buying used cars!