Topic: i had to turn away from a kiss
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Sun 10/28/07 10:31 AM
last night. aww-ww. a friend. i feel all giggly and drunk around him. i just like him but not like that.

it's a terrible thing to have to do. why couldn't he have known? he said, it's your smile.

do i have to have a talk now? or just pretend it never happened.

don't think that's happened since i was 15? turning away from a kisslaugh

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:32 AM
:smile:

wouldee's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:41 AM
you feel all giggly and drunk around him.......

???????????? HUH???????????

I'm confused, sounds like you found something there!!!

flowerforyou :heart:

Peaches73036's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:43 AM
Act as if it never happened, The last thing you wanna do is make him feel like a goof. jmo
xoxoPeaches.

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:43 AM
akO...

Feeling drunk around him are endorphins. I know it feels wonderful. One thing though, I would NEVER turn away from a kiss, ever.

flowerforyou flowerforyou

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:48 AM
i would

Peaches73036's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:48 AM
I would too.
xoxoPeaches.

seahawks's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:54 AM
that would suk to have that happen is all i hafta say.!!!!

Peaches73036's photo
Sun 10/28/07 10:55 AM
It would for both parties.
xoxoPeaches.

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Sun 10/28/07 11:02 AM
guess he's more like a pal, doesn't get to me in that..

i want this man to take me kinda way:wink:

sigh. and i'm taller than he issmokin

it's just not there ya know

but puffins, not always sexual, feeling fun

i'd like to be able to hang with a guy friend without him feeling like it has to be physical etc though surely i'm dreaminlaugh

i like boysflowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Sun 10/28/07 11:05 AM
doh.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

Peaches73036's photo
Sun 10/28/07 11:07 AM
Your not dreamin or asking to much..There are lots of guys who like to just hang out and be friends to....I think there still are. lol
xoxoPeaches.

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Sun 10/28/07 11:12 AM
drinker

actually i have one of those, but we got over fcking as wild and crzy kids years ago LOL so it's all hugs and kisses and goofy nowlaugh

laugh laugh seahawk

s1owhand's photo
Sun 10/28/07 11:19 AM
blow it off. he just got caught up in a moment.
probably won't bug him too much if you've been
friends for a good while.

more talk will likely make it more awkward it'll
fade in a few days and it sounds minor minor.

but it is making me think of making out :tongue:

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Sun 10/28/07 02:17 PM
unless hes related to you some how theres always that hope a friend will be more than that at some point down the road. i've had many friends around my age that turned into lovers after the curiousity was quenched we went our separate ways. one of my best friends has been a cousin but she married and moved to san antonio. we talk but it will never be the same. and i havve tried to make friends with some gals but it seems either i cross that line or they do. its a hard thing to keep your feelings at bay when you find someone who gets you.

Totage's photo
Sun 10/28/07 02:23 PM
ak0, just act like it never happened, if he tries anything else,then just tell him you just want to be friends.

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Sun 10/28/07 02:39 PM
"i feel all giggly and drunk around him."
followed by
"i just like him but not like that."

Can you see why men have problems understanding this logic!>? laugh

this is the point where the guy thinks theres chemistry, goes online to a place like yahoo answers and gives his perspective, everyone says "YAAH GO FOR IT MAN! SHE LIKES YOU!"
so he goes for it and its shot down in flames.

sick

we should band together and right a male and female dictionary with a thesaurus for things like:

she says "Im looking for a tall man"
translation:
"Im looking for a man that gives me the feeling of safty, security and makes me feel feminine."

grumble


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Sun 10/28/07 03:29 PM
lol yah, to be fair, I can understand why he would be potentially confused.

I'd act like it didn't happen, but you might have to spell it out in the near future. But do it with no uncertain terms, even if you keep the mood light.

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Sun 10/28/07 03:36 PM
LOL exactly

that's why i feel kinda bad about it cause 'all signs were there'

but we really do like security, at least i do, something to do with sleeping good in the night, easing your worst memories and fears, etc. that's a tall order indeedlaugh

thanks for the varying perspectives guysflowerforyou

slowhand, just the sight of your screenname makes me think bout makin outbigsmile