My ex was ok looking.. but he was intellegent and could carry on a conversation. He was more attractive to me for thatreason. My friends looked at me and said yes, he is ok looking but he is not THAT good looking, but to me he was.

Yea, It's ok, I just think there has to be a spark now or I wouldn't even see it. lol
xoxoPeaches.

There ya go Dragon, beauty bis in the eye of the beholder!!

You're pretty intellegent, there...txmama74 In that case... time to cut the losses and move on.

sigh.........................HERE!.......


Romantic Ideas Make a little loving gesture every day for one full year.
Cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie.
Take a bubble bath together.
Walk on the beach in the moonlight.
Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is the best".
Put a single red rose on the seat of your lover's car before they go to work.
Send your lover a virtual postcard at least once a week.
Get every book ever written by your loved one's favorite author.
Get every movie starring your lovers favorite actor.
Keep twenty pounds of your lovers favorite candy on hand.
Take her to see the movie Titanic fifteen times.
Make love to him/her every night until he/she asks you to stop.
Give him/her twelve dozen roses on all their special days.
Compose a list: "101 Reasons Why You're the Greatest" Write each reason on a separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.
Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
Relax with a glass of white wine.
Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn't matter what kind. Leave it for your lover with a note saying " Out of all the fish in the sea, you are the one for me".
Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
Put a blindfold on your lover and drive them to a place where you have a blanket, candles, strawberries, sparkling drinks, and a rose. Park the car and take off the blindfold while you read a poem you have written for them.
While your lover is in the shower, or bath, put their bath towel in a hot dryer for a few minutes. Greet them when they get out of the shower with the toasty towel.
Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the box. What a way to start the day!
Write a list of 50 or more things you like or love about your sweetheart.
Unplug the TV set. Put a note on the screen saying, "Turn Me on Instead".
Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much. Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link inviting them to the page.
Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
Fix a hot cup of Raspberry Chocolate, cuddle in a warm afghan and watch An Affair to Remember.
Place a perfumed handkerchief in the dryer with your sheets before drying.
Send your love a letter with confetti hearts inside of the letter so they pour out everywhere when your sweetheart opens it.
Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
Share your romantic fantasies
Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
Write a love note or poem on a piece of paper and then cut it up into puzzle-like pieces. Send one a day to your special someone.
Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
Carve "His" and "Hers" jack-o-lanterns at Halloween.
Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
Camp-out in a tent with your lover and picnic in a tree house
Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.
Spend one solid hour exploring various kissing techniques.
Turn your "bedroom" into a "boudoir". Use soft colors and fabrics, fresh cut flowers on your nightstand, mirrors everywhere, etc. Hang your lovers Favorite art on your walls.

the sparks dont always have to fly right away sometimes they take time to ignite

OMG sparks... give me a min to read that lol. I am feeling lazy atm

And I am sure the list goes on and on like the energy bunny!!

(((((purplecat)))))

You have my utmost respect, Dragon for seeing that inner person.

Without discovering that... failure is imminent.

Thank you. I try to keep an open mind on everything.

Purple that was wayyyyy too long lol. I read most of it.

well...dat purple cat has the way to find out the dedication of a man...lol

you know...reading is very good for mind

I read everyday. I can finish a 300 page book in half a day but there is a point lol.

I'm not much of a reader, not even instructions, unless I have to!!!

Nerve, isn't that a guy think though :p

the way to a womans heart
8 years of med school to become a heart surgen
take scaple, make insison on chest, break breast bone
heart exposed
j/k

It's easy to imagine,
for it's simple as can be...
The place is in a room,
the players he and she...
"Will it hurt?" she asked him.
"Of course not!" answered he...
"it's a very simple process,
please...rely on me."

Finally he convinced her..
that it would only hurt a bit.
At last, she consented...
and they went on with it..

Now...if you're a curious mind...
it's a Dentist you will find...
Its not what you were thinking,
that was just your dirty mind.