the chemistry--hahahahaha--









what?

i have never asked a guy how much money does he make---

maybe what do you do and that only to make sure he has goals, etc and is not wanting me to carry him through life.

Go ahead and ask joice!

I make enough to pay the bills and never get to go out!!!

hey, nerves--how goes it?

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hey-- i am not materialistic at all
i have "nice stuff" but i work for it and i keep my head above water. not looking for someone to support me, but i am not looking to support anyone else either.

Boy... I guess if most of us had that right... we wouldn't be here in first place unless our ideas are what brought us here..

I am past all the infatuation and imature ideas of what conjures up the thing called "LOVE". Like a couple other comments indicated I believe its mutual or not at all, that both will know and neither will have to do anything abnormal to win their way into someones heart.

Now me, I have been married twice for all the wrong reasons... but now live and work from home with the company of my best friend (my German Shepard) with no worries if I'm liked, loved, appreciated etc,

Like the love of (and from) a pet...it should be unconditional with no need to be anyone but you.

i agree with step one foot agree with step three. i will explain in a sec

i agree with step one dont agree with step three. i will explain in a sec

joyce you are the exception, I have had about 50 send me a letter since I have been on this site. all but about 5 have asked me how much I have for opening line. so far as dating that in my opinion is not, they never ask what church I go to or even if I go, they never ask what I am looking for in a lady,the only things they seem to ask wheather or not I can afford them. certainly not something that should be put in a first letter, still nearly all do it.

nobody has made the comment "the way to a woman's heart is with a surgical knife"?

wow i'm surprised

waiting on you to say it

i agree on ther chemistry but i was refering to what happens after the inital attraction

Is the where the word "backstabbing" come from? Surely you jest in that comment.

I don't think our ideal match is always next door...thus the reason why I am here, but I never see a need to get hostile over a relationship.

It's as simple as moving on, learning from our mistakes and with enough wisdom and time...we will will not rush things but take them as they come (if it's there at all).

I think it crucial to be friends...

After the initial attraction chief...starts the "friendship" cycle... from every aspect. Is she interested, welcoming and sharing in the interation? When it comes down to it... most relationships are lost in the area of communication (or lack of).

on the attraction therory.... I'm not sure I totally agree with that... at least from a distance.

Just for fun... I took the same picture here on my profile...did a nifty hair do with Adobe and made a reply on some website discussion. I have never had such overwhelming flirting from younger attractive women then at that point.

Now, I think that is funny!

that is funny


and i agree but the looks for alot of people is what gives you the chance to become frinds and then move forward from that point

Step 1

MAKE HER LAUGH


Step 2

Make her feel like the center of your world


Step 3

Use your actions to show her you love her so that when you tell her you do there is zero doubt in her mind.


Step 4

MAKE HER TOES CURL

Add m&m's and I'm game!
xoxoPeaches.

that's the shallow part of the human mind but...to some degree, I do beleive you have do be attracted to a point.

It's just a little crazy as to what point that is...