Topic: How to moveon???
sybariticguy's photo
Sun 02/21/16 07:48 AM
counselors are available at any mental health facility see yellow pages for nearest help advice from strangers not likely helpful or appropriate regards

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Sun 02/21/16 03:31 PM

Thanks. But il just missed him nothing particular

whom did you miss ?

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/21/16 05:10 PM
Hun, if you gave it all and did not get it back,
it means you did it right, he did not.

Going out and doing things on your own helps,
you might even meet someone new..that really helps :-)

adivorcedone's photo
Sun 02/21/16 05:23 PM
The way to move on is simple....put the left foot in front, then the right and repeat this action....remember, little steps at a time...its like learning to walk all over again.....only this time it is your life, that needs the re-start...all I am saying...

peggy122's photo
Mon 02/22/16 04:21 AM
A break up is like a death so. give yourself time to cry and grief the loss of your relationship and the loss of your dream. After that, your next step is to start seeking hobbies and being around people who make you feel.good about yourself.

Try not rushing into a next relationship too soon . It will only make you feel worse if you have to deal with the pain of two break ups at once.

I promise you . If you focus on doing things and being with friends that make you feel good, it will crowd most of your bad feelings out . And then you will be more ready for a better quality of love. Good luck to you flowerforyou


Frankk1950's photo
Mon 02/22/16 05:06 AM
It is nice to see the care expressed by each poster and there is lots of sound advice contained in the responses.There are times when it is not advice that is sought but simply someone to talk with,as the poster has stated.Yes she has asked for advice on how to move on but her immediate need is someone to talk to.I could very well be mistaken in my assessment of the situation.

shawnmingle1234's photo
Sat 02/27/16 03:17 AM
Hi.

NOBootyHunter's photo
Sat 02/27/16 03:55 AM
I'm sorry, I know it stinks (I would use SU^& but it could get into trouble..) Settle down, there is a reason it's over, It not the end of the world..

Think of yourself.. what do you have to offer someone? Are you honest,faithful.. this is time for you..There are a million questions you can ask in your head..But why bother? whats done is done .. How much did you have to play in it? were you at fault? was there something you could have done differently? if so can you change? what will you settle for next time?

We are all human, we make mistakes.. Learn from it...Grow be better,

focus on you good qualities, make them better Time heals all wounds


Good Luck keep your head up,,,,

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 02/27/16 10:54 AM

Til now im still looking for his care and hold on to promises weve made... It hurts.. :(


as soon as your finished grieving ie,denial and isolation,anger, bargaining,depression,acceptance. we all have to mourn our losses so we can let go of the pain and get on with our life,,,,,its healthy, you will see.....:smile: :smile:

no photo
Sat 02/27/16 02:58 PM
do not try to forget ... the more you try to forget, the greater you will remember

no photo
Sat 02/27/16 11:21 PM
Hey

lindakyle048's photo
Sat 02/27/16 11:56 PM
Breaking up is like hell...don't ever try it it kill little by little and cause many confusion around people

mrcl31's photo
Fri 03/25/16 12:53 PM
Well, if ayaw na nya or parang wala pa ring liwanag sa mga pangako nya. Bitaw na... Go somewhere after.. A change of environment helps..

blah..blah..'s photo
Sat 03/26/16 07:12 AM

sad




flowers

it's hard, it takes time, but you'll move on eventually, just find things to occupy your mind in the meantime.

good luck :smile:

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/26/16 08:13 AM

counselors are available at any mental health facility see yellow pages for nearest help advice from strangers not likely helpful or appropriate regards


Medical people usually mess up the situation worse than it is. I would locate someone local. Besides , there are no more real doctors, they are just high paid pharmacists. Xp