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im having so problums. i am going out with this guy on this site, but its all weird. cuz when i call, hes either not there or asleep. but when i do get to talk 2 him, he makes everything ok. but we only talk for a few minutes. i want 2 know whats up, but i cant get him on the phone. err! i just wanna know if hes playing me. does that sound like hes playing me?
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Maybe he works long hours.
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everything surfaces in the end---
i think i would stop calling and allow him to make the calls when he is not so busy |
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whats his attitude when with you?
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hmmm....it's good to be a sceptic...keeps the buzzer on the alarms in good working order....
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i understand this...you should totally step back and let him call you now...then you will know if he is interested!..4 -REAl
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thanks everyone! that helps.
 when we are on the phone, its different. sometimes hes all talkative and awesome. other times hes all quiet.
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What about in person? How does he act then? Who initates the plans?
Hang in there...we are here if you need us! Hugs, M |
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Its time to let him come to you. If he is serious about you, then he'll want to talk. Its a hard thing to go thru.. but i think that your best bet.. its time to let him come to you.
Good Luck |
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I would be cautious paper hearts tear easy
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I would forget it and move on. If he is playing you or just ignoring you because he can, he's just a flat out jerk.
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Actions speak louder than words....
YEEEESSSSS, he's playing you, move on! 
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You can always tell how the person feels about you with the speed of which they answer the phone.
With my last relationship, when it first started, she answered on the first ring every time, then right before she left me, she started not answering and then calling back a few minutes later. So put it plainly, if someone was calling that I really cared about..sleeping or not, i would answer that phone ASAP. |
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true in your case mimx, but If i cant find/get to my phone in time (damn cordless lol) is she fair to judge me that im not interested?
I totally get what you mean though. |
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If we all followed our gut feelings, we wouldn't have to wonder about this crap. I'm going to take my own advise. I think.
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have to disagree Mimx
i have girlfriends who when they are interested in a guy play that game and do not answer the telephone and call back-- they do not want to appear too interested even when they are. |
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Mimx...I dated a guy for some time, he always picked up his cell phone fast. It wasn't because he was crazy about me, he was afraid his wife would answer it... I didn't know he was married. So I think your theory is a bit off.
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lol @ LLH5
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nur..remember the post about stupid being your (my) middle name? It was written in all caps for that relationship.
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yes--
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