Topic: why men cheats?
Gozzreal's photo
Mon 02/29/16 08:53 AM
Men do not cheat boys do. I mean come on you have to be really stupid to cheat anyway.But I guess i am unique because I still believe I love you to be something serious.

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Mon 02/29/16 09:29 AM
Let me ask to know that Is Cheating a sole / Exclusive character given only to men ?? Is it all men that cheating in relationship always ?? Is it impossible to find any lady / girl cheating intentionally ? Anyone who can make brief this for me Plz

TMommy's photo
Mon 02/29/16 09:31 AM
good for the goose is good for the gander darling


but for some odd reason these kind of threads show up here

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 02/29/16 01:03 PM
I would say the PRIMARY reason that some men cheat is that they have small peckers, and they are looking for a smaller(midget sized) hole so at least they can feel 'average'...that's my conclusion.

lexibabii's photo
Tue 03/01/16 07:38 PM
Typically, in my opinion, men cheat because they are looking for something that their partner is lacking to give them. More times than not, this is simply attention. Just because your man is "the man of the house" and strong and all that junk, doesn't mean they don't want and need constant love and attention too!

N2000's photo
Tue 03/01/16 07:40 PM
curious to know why men cheating.

N2000's photo
Tue 03/01/16 07:42 PM
Edited by N2000 on Tue 03/01/16 07:43 PM
I agree with you, lexibabii

 Maria195's photo
Tue 03/01/16 09:52 PM
I kind of disagree with you isaac_dede. My ex had a shoe size 12 1/2 if you know what I mean...then he cheated on me because he was going true midlife crisis, him and his ex-girlfriend was 32 yrs. younger than him

She was looking for a "Sugar Daddy" and left him with $16,000.00 debt bigsmile

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Wed 03/02/16 04:29 AM

good for the goose is good for the gander darling
but for some odd reason these kind of threads show up here

Dear Tmommy
I see it can be true as u said for few cases. But not certain and apply same in all conditions. Do u think that men cheat always in all conditions ?? Is cheating the main interest and motives for men most z time ?

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Wed 03/02/16 04:36 AM

I kind of disagree with you isaac_dede. My ex had a shoe size 12 1/2 if you know what I mean...then he cheated on me because he was going true midlife crisis, him and his ex-girlfriend was 32 yrs. younger than him

She was looking for a "Sugar Daddy" and left him with $16,000.00 debt bigsmile

Maria 195 its very sad to hear such shameful ending really it embrace and disturbs much. But one thing is clear that do u know what it is? Its all happened for sake your honesty. Almighty God was besides you Maria. That why they left each other short time with such misery. Your patience and honesty took prize a reasonable justices. Am sorry for lossing your life partner such manner.

Misa88's photo
Thu 03/03/16 09:54 AM
People is simple. Man cheats because he wants that. ...

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Thu 03/03/16 11:21 AM
The OP ..

jeanette002

made one post on her first day & deactivated

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Thu 03/03/16 11:23 AM

The OP ..

jeanette002

made one post on her first day & deactivated


Hmmmm...I guess her question was answered smile2

 Maria195's photo
Thu 03/03/16 11:36 AM


I kind of disagree with you isaac_dede. My ex had a shoe size 12 1/2 if you know what I mean...then he cheated on me because he was going true midlife crisis, him and his ex-girlfriend was 32 yrs. younger than him

She was looking for a "Sugar Daddy" and left him with $16,000.00 debt bigsmile

Maria 195 its very sad to hear such shameful ending really it embrace and disturbs much. But one thing is clear that do u know what it is? Its all happened for sake your honesty. Almighty God was besides you Maria. That why they left each other short time with such misery. Your patience and honesty took prize a reasonable justices. Am sorry for lossing your life partner such manner.


samevood. Thanks for your comment...we still friends but now from different States, they went different ways short after I left. :smile:

amae1108's photo
Thu 03/03/16 11:53 AM

I think all man do this i mean its their human nature to taste something new to spice things up.they will flirt with their opposite sex to get something and now its all up to us female if we will entertain that kind of guy knowing if the guy is married or in a relationship. My point here is men cheats but you think if the woman they flirted with wont even dare to go and have a sexual or longterm and serious relationship with a married or in a relationship man. Just imagine if all women don't entertain guys like this?i believe that maybe their are no broken families now. So my message here are for the women please don't go with married or already taken guys coz we deserve someone who doesn't treat us as a 2nd option bec they are not happy with their first or what ever their reason for cheating. Their are so many guys out their That is meant for us just have faith bec always remember you will ruin and hurt other people and even be a cause of a broken family.and if you where on the wife or girlfriends shoe you wouldn't want that to happened to you.right? Now don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto u. I always believe in the law of KARMA.

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Thu 03/03/16 12:01 PM


The OP ..

jeanette002

made one post on her first day & deactivated


Hmmmm...I guess her question was answered smile2



I tried to tell them Nancy...but no.
Distracted by the pic or blinded by the light..or something..laugh

amae1108's photo
Thu 03/03/16 12:23 PM


I think all man do this i mean its their human nature to taste something new to spice things up.they will flirt with their opposite sex to get something and now its all up to us female if we will entertain that kind of guy knowing if the guy is married or in a relationship. My point here is men cheats but you think if the woman they flirted with wont even dare to go and have a sexual or longterm and serious relationship with a married or in a relationship man. Just imagine if all women don't entertain guys like this?i believe that maybe their are no broken families now. So my message here are for the women please don't go with married or already taken guys coz we deserve someone who doesn't treat us as a 2nd option bec they are not happy with their first or what ever their reason for cheating. Their are so many guys out their That is meant for us just have faith bec always remember you will ruin and hurt other people and even be a cause of a broken family.and if you where on the wife or girlfriends shoe you wouldn't want that to happened to you.right? Now don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto u. I always believe in the law of KARMA.

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 03/03/16 03:40 PM

I kind of disagree with you isaac_dede. My ex had a shoe size 12 1/2 if you know what I mean...then he cheated on me because he was going true midlife crisis, him and his ex-girlfriend was 32 yrs. younger than him

She was looking for a "Sugar Daddy" and left him with $16,000.00 debt bigsmile


my initial post was more of a troll for those men that claim cheating is the FAULT of the other person instead of their own fault for lacking integrity

BUT....32 years younger......generally feels smaller...but not always...

it doesn't have to be physical size, but going 32 years younger is in a sense still 'validating' his manhood.

Midlife crisis, lack of affection, 'fell out of love' , are excuses not reasons for cheating in my opinion.

IMHO there are no reasons for cheating, you have integrity and respect for your partner break up with them first when you realize the relationship is over.


TMommy's photo
Thu 03/03/16 03:42 PM


good for the goose is good for the gander darling
but for some odd reason these kind of threads show up here

Dear Tmommy
I see it can be true as u said for few cases. But not certain and apply same in all conditions. Do u think that men cheat always in all conditions ?? Is cheating the main interest and motives for men most z time ?
no that would depend on the character of the man

NaughtyyyBoy's photo
Thu 03/03/16 08:04 PM
I think kind heart & obedient......mam