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Topic: what women really want for Valentines Day?
Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Fri 02/12/16 01:47 PM
a love letter made with your own little hands a dinner cooked with love a nice glass of wine good conversation a back rub a body rub loving til the morning light or til ya pass out and snore... These should be everyday occurrences...except the letter writing

Jimmy_roy Joined Sun 11/15/15 Posts: 1121	Fri 02/12/16 03:11 PM
Is romantic gesture from guys only valentine? I think that is the topic but cleaning toilets is considered the romantic gesture means Janitors will be in huge demand this valentine

Vera Joined Sun 03/31/13 Posts: 305	Fri 02/12/16 03:22 PM
.... simply a smile, a kiss, and a coffee.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45395	Fri 02/12/16 03:22 PM
On Valentines, he will be cleaning the bathroom. So, I get everything I want :-) I would be perfectly happy with that, too. WOW ..if cleaning the bathroom is the highlight of your romance that doesn't say much about the relationship...just saying If someone knows you well enough to hit the g-spot (gifts) it is indeed a huge turn on. Afterwards...see rewards in there??

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Fri 02/12/16 04:27 PM
Oh! yah...24 years of marriage...and I cannot remember getting a single bottle of Teacher's or Johnny Walker Swing Scotch whisky as, what would be considered a thoughtful gift on Valentines...But I sure remember un-clogging the kids, toy filled, toilet one year, and that action really killed the romantic mood for me....Yup, it was always about HER...just saying...

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Fri 02/12/16 04:39 PM
meh.. I am used to getting nothing on Valentines day..It's just a hallmark holiday. I guess I was shown the love daily???

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Fri 02/12/16 04:58 PM
So far out of 27 answers, 8 were off men, 33.3%, not bad, maybe the solution lies in here

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10849	Fri 02/12/16 05:23 PM
Nothing. Valentine's Day is not a holiday.

♣️dwebagirl♣️ Joined Fri 01/29/16 Posts: 35	Fri 02/12/16 08:58 PM
valentines day was the one day I got flowers, chocolates, a card with words( actually telling me how he felt about me). so I used to celebrate this day to the full...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 02/12/16 09:05 PM
oh heaven only knows but mutual match says I have 1 (one) match YAAAAAAAAY!!!!!

Guadalupita Joined Thu 05/08/14 Posts: 8	Fri 02/12/16 09:07 PM
I don't use to celebrate valentine's day, even when i have been in a relation, but i think a good gift for me, in any day would be chocolates and books :). Good night to all.

czery Joined Thu 01/28/16 Posts: 487	Fri 02/12/16 09:14 PM
valentines is not just for a day that should be everyday for lovers...so for me spending time together..walking at the beach under the moonlight or stargazing is much appreciated than fancy gifts

Frankk1950 Joined Sat 09/12/15 Posts: 493	Fri 02/12/16 10:16 PM
Valentine's day is not just about flowers, chocolates, cards or a dinner....all the material things given are irrelevant, it's the thought that counts remembering the special day of the love you have shared with each other, showing your appreciation for the presence of that particular person in your life filling your heart with love and joy. Showing simple acts of affection is enough to make someone feel loved and special.......hmmmnnnn......a hug, kiss and your presence (physically, mentally or spiritually), being together in the celebration of your love is all that matters. And it's not just this particular day that you celebrate and show your love but it should be everyday, a lifetime celebration of a beautiful gift of love. As always Dolphin your message is warm loving and straight from the heart.Why anyone has to dissect and criticise the sentiments expressed therein is more a reflection on the sad state of the other person than anything you said.I believe most people will take more from your simple message than an encyclopaedia of whining from an egocentric self appointed critic.Acknowledging that I have made the occasional inappropriate comment myself.

frankderrano147 Joined Sat 02/13/16 Posts: 2	Sat 02/13/16 01:21 AM
What about sex?

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Sat 02/13/16 01:38 AM
On Valentines, he will be cleaning the bathroom. So, I get everything I want :-)

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 02/13/16 08:04 PM Edited by TMommy on Sat 02/13/16 08:04 PM
so I belong to more than one site one of them is a bodybuilding site lot of members are old married guys who are choosing not to get their wives anything I see this all the time.. this whole " I am not going to celebrate this holiday" mentality protesting the whole commercialism of red heart shaped boxes of candy and diamond necklaces and over priced roses..and over crowded restaurants.. I wonder ..when did this happen in your life? or were you always like this? most holidays have been commercialized so why is it this one you choose to pass by without celebrating? did you do this in your marriage?

Hirendave2088 Joined Sun 08/23/15 Posts: 1	Sun 02/14/16 02:29 AM
wow dear

DUDEsINgwalior Joined Mon 02/08/16 Posts: 4	Sun 02/14/16 05:50 AM
For me it's about spending time with each other. If you want to be together the only thing that will strengthen your relationship is time doing things together. It's not a one day thing its everyday Money in this sense is nothing. Chocolates make you fat Flowers die Undergarments can cause great distress A meal can be just as romantic (or naughty) at home when you both cook. A card can reveal what that other person is feeling but they can't find the words themselves to say. Ok I sound cheap but to me it's the person himself not what's in his wallet.

Cutesweetlady Joined Mon 01/04/16 Posts: 2	Sun 02/14/16 06:16 AM
If he is in love, everyday should be Valentine's Day.

dolphin0925 Joined Tue 08/18/15 Posts: 1900	Sun 02/14/16 08:58 AM
Valentine's day is not just about flowers, chocolates, cards or a dinner....all the material things given are irrelevant, it's the thought that counts remembering the special day of the love you have shared with each other, showing your appreciation for the presence of that particular person in your life filling your heart with love and joy. Showing simple acts of affection is enough to make someone feel loved and special.......hmmmnnnn......a hug, kiss and your presence (physically, mentally or spiritually), being together in the celebration of your love is all that matters. And it's not just this particular day that you celebrate and show your love but it should be everyday, a lifetime celebration of a beautiful gift of love. As always Dolphin your message is warm loving and straight from the heart.Why anyone has to dissect and criticise the sentiments expressed therein is more a reflection on the sad state of the other person than anything you said.I believe most people will take more from your simple message than an encyclopaedia of whining from an egocentric self appointed critic.Acknowledging that I have made the occasional inappropriate comment myself. Thank you for the kind words Frank Happy Valentine's Day!