OK HERES THE THING, IM ON HERE FOR THE VERY SAME THINGS AS EVERY ONE ELSE AND FOR SOME REASON I CANT FIGURE OUT WHY I EMAIL LIKE A TON OF GIRLS A DAY AND NO ONE WANTS TO TALK BACK. I FEEL IM BEING RESPECTABLE, I TRY NOT TO SOUND NEEDY BECAUSE IM NOT BUT ITS FRUSTRATING WHEN IT SEEMS LIKE IM INVISABLE TO EVERY ONE. MY PROFILE ISNT HARSH OR STUCK ON MY SELF, I DONT THINK MY PICTURE IS ALL THAT BAD, SO WHAT.......WHAT DO I NEED TO DO DIFFERNT? DONT WORRY ABOUT MY FEELINGS AT THIS POINT JUST TELL ME THE WAY IT IS. THANKS

Hey we should start a club!

Don't take it personal. Just enjoy the site and participate in the forums, don't expect anything, just have a good time.

Just hand out and have fun:)

I get the same problem. I email some woman I might want to talk to but noting, no respond etc.

It's crazy but well I guess it's meant to be as well.

Seriously, just talk and get to know people

Don't worry about making a date, just try to make some friends. If you can't be friends with a person, you're probably not gonna have any luck dating them imo.

I had the same problem. I posted a billion times and now they e-mail me. Who knew?

yeah man chill out im having the problem i dont know want to do either

Yah or do what Lex says. Post counts = respect I hear.

look average joe..imtrying not to sound harsh..but quit whining it seems like every week you ask about the same question..im trying to be nice ..just join in the forums and be yourself take it easy dude and quit stressing it..if it happens it happens but its gonna take time..if it dont happen then it dont ..quit worrying ..you got to let people get to know you other than "what am i doing wrong"..because thats what youre doing wrong..i havent met anyone either and if i dont ..so what im going to enjoy myself any way..so relax and join in the forums i dont mean this to sound harsh..you asked and i believe in giving you an honest opinion ..what you do with it is up to you...take it easy and slow down...chill out..just some friendly advice

post in forums that interest you, so that the women of this site can learn about you, your personality,humor,etc.

Find one person and flirt with them and only them in thread.
Then ask if you can email her. Talk and get to know her then repeat process unless you both hit it off and want to date then just show her that you value the time you both have together.
In other words make her feel special.

I agree with totage--just hang out and enjoy the site. Post more on the forums and don't make finding someone your singular purpose. I mean, it's OK to want to find someone (most of us do) but letting people know who you are is the most important thing you can relay. And one more thing, and I know that some might think this harsh--Your handle here is "Average Joe" and I know that it is just a name but some might feel like they have had a bad run of luck with dating average people. They might equate the name with your not feeling all that good about yourself and to be honest, you don't look all that happy in your public picture.

Smile a little, lighten things up a bit and enjoy this site. Good luck, Joe.

-Drew

Yea, what kojak and the other guys said. There are guys on here who have earned our respect and admiration through the forums, they have fun and play and see what happens. That is really good advice for you. Some guys just want to lurk and email and we don't know anything about them. I am not saying not answering your mail is cool, cuz I don't do that most of the time unless they really come off disrespectful. Get in there and play, the games are a good start. Good luck.

trust me its the same way with guyz so dont get discouraged

it happens to everyone just keep trying. your not alone inthat erea.

I get more replies than I used to here. But there is always that percentage that never write back. I always at least send a reply to someone who takes the time to write to me, even if I don't find her to be really hot
It is just like a common courtesy but many do not extend the same courtesy online that they do in real life. Strange how that works.

I dont mean to sound like im whining on here, Im not but I guess I came here thinking that it would be easy to meet some one on line, my time is cut short from the work that I do so I cant just go out and meet someone..I travel alot and that isnt helping alot either, so for those of you that think I should just chill maby your right but I also think that if some ones says hi its just common respect to say hi back..I dont know what any ones affraid of, your sitting behind a computer and I might be 1000 miles from the person Im trying to talk to..

post and make friends
i my friends on here
they are wonderful

Kojack gives some of the best advise here. he is liked by all and knows most. We have learned alot from him.

hang in there cutie...good things come to those who wait....(keepin my fingers crossed for ya!)