Oi, let any woman see the ugly side of you too…stop kissing a-ss thinking it’s a foot in, truth always surface. You are more relaxed if you are yourself. Maybe you need to learn some social skills

Bobzeaux - if you say you don't need to learn some social skills then, you are your own worse enemy.

Have you ever wondered maybe you are too boring for her why she stopped talking to you???

Silence is a great discipline, you should try it to help ya see your situation clearer. Getting pissy will not help ya, it only cloud your mind to see and understand things better.

A behaviour like this in your post, is unattractive, no sheila will give you a chance because listening is a great tool to have when interacting with others. If you think you know it all, why bother telling us your situation here!

"if you say you don't need to learn some social skills then, you are your own worse enemy."
The only social skills I don't know are those which don't make any sense. How is a guy more attractive to a girl if he just treats her like a pretty piece of meat meant for his own satisfaction? That doesn't make sense to me.

"Have you ever wondered maybe you are too boring for her why she stopped talking to you???"
Sure, except every girl I've ever known loves my company and would tell you I'm a great guy to be with.

"A behaviour like this in your post, is unattractive"
What behavior? Reacting negatively to a negative stimulus? That's not being pissy, it's being human.

"If you think you know it all, why bother telling us your situation here!"
If I know it all, shouldn't I logically have women crawling all over me? Obviously there's something in this equation that I don't know. All I seek in here is what the missing variable is.

even if it us the usual thing try to put a little of the normal stuff your profile
Besides your animal magnetism you did leave out a few things about yourself too, I know its coded in the cats and dogs thing but a few more of what you are looking for in life or from a woman might help
and once again good luck
and if my daughters had any brains they would look you up but hey
your someone is out there its just s huge haysatck you are going through to find that needle.

I don't have to read your profile, to know your problem derives from being cocky instead of taking the time to listen. If you don't master that one simple and important thing that helps you understand your situation better then why bother telling us about your problem.

In all 3 pages, your responses spilled issues you have on the top of more issues, it is not being smart, it is makes women stay away from you.... women should take note and not bother with ya to save them from getting a headache

Listen if some one isn't willing to except you for who you are. Why bother? Why force be persistant in forcing a relationship with some one that clearly isn't interested? I mean it's not worth it.

I apologize in advance if this sounds jaded, cynical, harsh, or just jerk-like but the fact is, no one here owes me a conversation or owes me an explanation if they decide to stop having conversations with me. This is an online dating site. New people (and yes, potentially more interesting/beter looking/live closer) arrive daily and because that is the way it goes, there is a chance you might find yourself wondering what happened. But isn't that a risk that you take? I mean, it IS a risk you take and if people aren't up for that then there isn't much comfort to be offered. Putting yourself out there is risky and getting rejected for doing so is part of the gig. Everyone knows that, and so I am always somewhat amazed when people ask why.

I swear it was not my intention to be a jerk in this reply. I'm just pragmatic and practical about all of this.

Fare thee well.

Drew

Where are all the good women at?

i'm confused!

Your being pretty arrogant for someone who says women should be crawling all over you. They aren't for one reason: no attraction. Girls do not HAVE to respond to you, mate. She could have just been bored and found another guy who thought interested her more on her level. Its happened before to lots of people. Your not the first, OK? Personally I would find you pesky if you talked to me that way.

you are a very nice looking man why dont you go to bars and malls and do it. that way you dont have to wait for anything. or get instantmessaging on your comp and talk. keep trying. i dont think this the place for it. but i know a couple good looking women

i agree that you shouldnt kiss butt just to get a woman to reply. BUT you are cocky women love it but you have to tone it down. not to be shallow but being cocky only works with fine women. i would chil out the people here dont like that kind of additude

being cocky never works. get real player, you obviously have no idea how to treat a lady with respect. or you wouldn't call yourself a "player" now would you? nobody here thinks your some mac daddy or pimp. in fact women see this as disgusting. so do yourself a favor and go get a life.

um it does work. i will not argue but wait i have a attractive woman and im cocky with her and she laughs all the time and she is cocky back. and i got a life im living it right now. and for the last time i treat women how they suppose to be treated

Yeah, an attractive 15 year old huh? You are ridiculous, and sickening. Confidence is sexy, but your attitude reeks. Start living in reality for the love aspirin.

"I don't have to read your profile, to know your problem derives from being cocky instead of taking the time to listen."
If you actually read my profile, you wouldn't even determine my "problem" anyway. This forum wouldn't be going on as long as it has been if I didn't know how to listen. The problem here lies in how there's apparently no answer to my initial question ("Why do women who enjoy talking to me suddenly cease all communication from completely out of nowhere?") that gives me some clarity and something to consider. I AM listening, but there's not a lot that's being offered that I haven't heard before and isn't answering my question.

"Everyone knows that, and so I am always somewhat amazed when people ask why."
Oh of course there's the risk of rejection. I'm just wondering why the rejection comes after what appears to be not only acceptance, but welcoming. And your response isn't jerky, don't worry about it. Thanks for the input. :)

"Personally I would find you pesky if you talked to me that way."
Talked to you what way? Genuinely interested in you as a human being? Trying to get to know you to possibly engage in a deep and meaningful relationship instead of out looking for a one-night-stand like too many guys in here? Yes, I can certainly see where you'd be irritated...

um i know what women want so. you are being disrespectful to me my girl is my age. do you have a man if so keep him happy and dont worry about me.

Cocky is good but in a certain since. You need to be confident. You can listen without hanging on every word. Don't just say what you both like but if she likes something and you don't let her know. You can be respectful to a girl and also having the attitude that there are other fish in the see and you wont walk through hoops to get the girl. Girls are use to guys chasing them. Try not chasing and they will wonder why you don't. If she is interested you might find out that you are the one being chased . Its true girls don't like assholes, but we all know that there are certain qualities they like about them or they would never date them in the first place. You just need to find the good attractive qualities and drop the bad.