Topic: mutual match
vanillarose54's photo
Thu 01/14/16 08:21 AM
How is it possible for one day that I only have 5 mutual matches to 285 mutual matches? I find it not only odd but frightening at the same time

Justchat4now's photo
Thu 01/14/16 09:28 AM
Lots will be fakes or time wasters, please be cautious when responding to them, especially from half way around the world. Report things you think are suspicious and you should block anyone who gives you an email address or phone number in their profile or the first message they send.
Disheartening I know, but you'll be happier when you find the right one, take care.

:smile:

darkowl1's photo
Thu 01/14/16 09:44 AM
I'm glad I'll never have to worry about matches....drinker laugh

craigstevens11's photo
Thu 01/14/16 10:48 AM
I find it odd too.....

mikey5360's photo
Thu 01/14/16 11:48 AM
My tip is to forget the mutual match feature....
Its a really easy way for scammers to try and bait you....
Meet someone the traditional Mingle way....
Via a well written profile that either you have, or you have responded to....
Or by getting to know them through what they write here in the forums....

soufiehere's photo
Thu 01/14/16 02:43 PM

How is it possible for one day that I only have 5 mutual matches to 285 mutual matches? I find it not only odd but frightening at the same time

I wish I had a definitive answer for this, but my Matches will be 200
any given day..that will drop to zero for a week, then back up at 10 an hour.

It is weird.
Perhaps people just tend to join in hordes?