In my own case and from past experiences ladies do

People ask for sex?!

In my experience it happens organically.
If someone asks "When are we going to have sex?" or "Will we have sex tonight?" or even "Do you want sex?" then they aren't reading the signs and if they aren't able to understand me without me spelling things out, then the answer is "No". Plus if it was going to happen, they would be in no doubt and wouldn't have to ask.

⤴ This!

You are right tho! Buh in the part of the world I'm from, guys do it more

Yeah, same here. For me, it happens organically. I've never been in situations where questions had to be asked flat out, usually it involves subtle hints here and there and a bit of flirting.

Plus, if you have to ask, you're giving off the obvious signal of desperation.

^^^^^^This...
Asking ruins the vibe, it should be felt.
However, I can understand that it may be slightly different for a man, cos there are women that may feel he's after sex only or don't want to look like a floozy. Or maybe the guy just wants to make sure she's ready to go all the way.
So in that sense I can get a guy wanting to have some form of confirmation that it's okay. But that's different scenario from what the OP is asking about, as he's basically asking when he can ask to get laid.

I could appreciate a guy letting me know he wants me and checking one way or another whether I'm okay with it. If he does that the right way, it could really be quite sexy

Letting it happen naturally is about the best way to go...c'mon, verbal and physical foreplay started an hour or two ago...the scene is set...why spoil the moment by asking....all I am saying...

Some men not too long ago brought me a dozen of red roses, two weeks later he wants to have sex. So I told him...I don't think so Mr. so I just had to say "Good bye"

Me too!

I always see them around the holidays.

Waifish looking street women in tattered rags, filth, and fingerless gloves coming up to me with their begging bowls in supplicating hand saying "Please, sir, may I have some sex?"

Good one, ciretom!

Well word on the street is that married men beg for sex from their wives.

It`s a know fact that no one ask for sex straight away (except if u r a hooker or in college or clueless ). But it is asked in a different way like "would you like to come up for tea" or "No one is at home and I ll be bored" or "Would you like to see my piano", etc etc

I guess your question is who initiates the booty call?
It depends on how the night is going and who is (attracted more).

Right but men who always ask..girls would only be as sweet as they can.

Your post reminds me of a "Seinfeld" episode. One of the main characters is driving his girlfriend home after an evening out, it's almost midnight and she says "Do you want to come up for some coffee?" and he replies, "Uhhh, no, kind of late. I normally don't drink coffee this late at night." At which point she says OK and gets out and goes home. A minute later he realizes what she meant/intended and starts cursing himself out in the car and yelling. LOL

Yeah I remember that but I don`t think in real life someone will not understand that. But sometimes it is very different to understand like in movie Tomcat, Julia and Jerry are in a hotel room drunk and ready for action but then Julia says "tell me the three magical words". Okay can anyone guess what are those three magical words?

Mae West
"Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me? "

Well.. I don't ask!.. it's more like I beg
. Please pretty please can we have sex?

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. I've never had to ask or beg. I figured out many years ago that the best way to get sex is to be quiet about it. Show some control in yourself. Treat whoever you are with, with respect.

Women, for the most part, are use to men that run around with their penis in their hand looking for somewhere to stick it. A lot of men don't realize that for a lot of women it's a turnoff. So, on the rare occasion that they meet a guy that shows interest in them without pawing or trying to get them to have sex within a few days to a week or two of meeting them, it throws them off their game.

They don't know what to think. The next thing you know she is letting you know that she either isn't interested in you at all. OR, She is ready for it. In other words, treat her with respect. Genuinely care for her. She will either return it, or she won't. If she doesn't, Have some pride in yourself and move on to the next one.

If she is your wife, that's a different story.

* Sex can be used as a form of power, by male or female.
The office. Dating relationships. Married at home. and so on.

* Love making and such! well that is equal and sometimes even PG (till later) haha!