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| Topic: Who ask for sex first! Ladies or Guys?? | |
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I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. I've never had to ask or beg. I figured out many years ago that the best way to get sex is to be quiet about it. Show some control in yourself. Treat whoever you are with, with respect. Women, for the most part, are use to men that run around with their penis in their hand looking for somewhere to stick it. A lot of men don't realize that for a lot of women it's a turnoff. So, on the rare occasion that they meet a guy that shows interest in them without pawing or trying to get them to have sex within a few days to a week or two of meeting them, it throws them off their game. They don't know what to think. The next thing you know she is letting you know that she either isn't interested in you at all. OR, She is ready for it. In other words, treat her with respect. Genuinely care for her. She will either return it, or she won't. If she doesn't, Have some pride in yourself and move on to the next one. If she is your wife, that's a different story. ^^^ This. |
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No asking involved. It happens naturally.
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Neither of the two, I believe that sex happens naturally....the body recognizes the signals of both emotionally,sexually/physically and mentally attracted couples. The rhythm of love has a timing in every beat that brings harmony in your relationship, you dance to the tune
  sex is like dancing with the music. No need to ask or beg, you just feel it and glide with all the sensations from the heat of the moment     
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Oh look my boobs are bursting out of my top .. Lmao
No that isn't a banana in my pocket.....I am just happy to see you. 
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Oh look my boobs are bursting out of my top .. Lmao
No that isn't a banana in my pocket.....I am just happy to see you.
 goof I am trying to give up my banana fetish 
First it's bananas......next it's cucumbers.  
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People ask for sex?! In my experience it happens organically. If someone asks "When are we going to have sex?" or "Will we have sex tonight?" or even "Do you want sex?" then they aren't reading the signs and if they aren't able to understand me without me spelling things out, then the answer is "No". Plus if it was going to happen, they would be in no doubt and wouldn't have to ask. Bingo |
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It`s a know fact that no one ask for sex straight away (except if u r a hooker or in college or clueless  ). But it is asked in a different way like "would you like to come up for tea" or "No one is at home and I ll be bored" or "Would you like to see my piano", etc etc 
I guess your question is who initiates the booty call? It depends on how the night is going and who is (attracted more).
Your post reminds me of a "Seinfeld" episode. One of the main characters is driving his girlfriend home after an evening out, it's almost midnight and she says "Do you want to come up for some coffee?" and he replies, "Uhhh, no, kind of late. I normally don't drink coffee this late at night." At which point she says OK and gets out and goes home. A minute later he realizes what she meant/intended and starts cursing himself out in the car and yelling. LOL Yeah I remember that but I don`t think in real life someone will not understand that. But sometimes it is very different to understand like in movie Tomcat, Julia and Jerry are in a hotel room drunk and ready for action but then Julia says "tell me the three magical words". Okay can anyone guess what are those three magical words? Yeah. LOL |
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I guess no need to use that much verbal communications zs cases most likely but I prefer try give some hints abt my desires and feelings by applying an effective sorts of body language. That is better showing my partner the interests I have inside and ask the solutions indirectly for the trouble feeling. Actions can gv the best signs & right response for the next step ahead ..... Which is go to do ahead or let down stop doing all
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In my own case and from past experiences ladies do I didn't know People actually asked unless someone was going to pay for it. I thought it was just some nice vibes which both people know they are going there at least hope so anyway. Hmmm such a novel concept. |
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Sex for dating only come
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Hahaha! That's hilarious
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