There are some really sick dudes on dating sites. And it's 98% men. I spent a couple of hrs yesterday, volunteering my time deleting shirtless pictures and pictures of guys with their "foot long schlong" in hand. It's almost one profile after the other. In that two hours I sent 3 profiles to the higher ups to be banned. They were that bad. I personally deleted close to 300 nasty pictures from different profiles on that site. Sometimes it bothers me knowing that there are that many sick minded people out there. And it's mostly my gender.

right this second ... it is telling me I need a Avatar to

post a topic ... meaning a profile picture ... what is it they want ... and what is up with this change ...

Men who appear to have been using the same photo for years.

Both men and women do this. I can't speak for men's pictures, however, it's very apparent that somewhere around 1/3 of women within 25 miles of me use photos from their late 30's to mid 40's. My search age range is 55 to 67 because I'm 65. I've seen a few who actually used their high school photo.

I've, also, seen pictures that it is very obvious they used Photoshop to fix up their photograph.

This is dishonesty. If they (men and women) are dishonest about the age of photo they are using and/or modified it what else are they being dishonest about?

Yeah, and it makes it difficult for the rest of us guys who have a large degree of decency.

People who use pictures of them lying in bed.

If the person in the picture is a politician, then the person is probably lying even when out of bed.

8 pictures and no smile..

Um...

Tigress, PLEASE know I would never make fun of anyone with a disability or handicap.. I had no clue of your situation, I never even looked at your profile.. until I just seen your quote and would have never known.. I tried to e-mail you and apologize..and you do not accept e-mails.. But I was in no way referring to you.. I had seen some profiles where some men and women just look mad or sad in their pictures.. I hope you understand and believe

Big gaudy tattoos is mine. art belongs on the walls, not your body.

Sideways pictures.

NOBootyHunter: Yeah I hate when people do that. It's like they are glaring, and practically snarling at you.

Profiles that talk in the third person.

- Filthy bedrooms
- The "Sad" look
- Duck faces


I actually saw a profile photo of a photograph. Yeah, they snapped a photo from the phone of them holding a photograph in the other hand.

Another profile had a photo of their drivers license (personally identifying information redacted of course) that expired in 1997.

I don't like profiles that have not been completed, or the ask me later option. Another peeve is the lack of responses to my messages!

true

Headless torsos.

yes!
or in some females' cases, headless backsides!