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Topic: Personal Space and Boundaries
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Thu 01/07/16 11:16 AM
I remember someone I used to be friends with, he violated my trust. Funny how even friends can take us for granted. You think you know someone, they one day, they start touching your thigh, and asking you if you'll sleep with them, for money. Needless to say, he's not my friend anymore. It scared me like he'll. I ran out of his house and phoned a taxi. It's not only the Internet where desperate people try and pull tricks. Surprised I'm not scared of men after stuff that's went on with me.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 01/07/16 11:27 AM
As for me no one smokes in my car or my house..

I do not like anyone messing with my hair unless it is my hairdresser or someone I'm intimate with....

People that do not control their kids and they are running all over the place...

:laughing: someone parking in my spot at work~~~ they will hear from me if they do... then I park behind them and they can not get out till I leave at the end of the day.. So they have to find someone else to take them to get something for lunch...bigsmile (It has only happen once)smile2

I don't really care for anyone to just drop by without calling...well except my kids. Cause normally I get home and the pj's go on..:thumbsup:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/07/16 12:53 PM

As for me no one smokes in my car or my house..

I do not like anyone messing with my hair unless it is my hairdresser or someone I'm intimate with....

People that do not control their kids and they are running all over the place...

:laughing: someone parking in my spot at work~~~ they will hear from me if they do... then I park behind them and they can not get out till I leave at the end of the day.. So they have to find someone else to take them to get something for lunch...bigsmile (It has only happen once)smile2

I don't really care for anyone to just drop by without calling...well except my kids. Cause normally I get home and the pj's go on..:thumbsup:


You have your own parking spot at work? Someone is a big dog. :tongue: laugh

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/07/16 12:56 PM
the only 'personal' space for me is inside my home

and an arms length away everywhere if we are not family or intimately connected,, that includes my 'air' which also leaves out smoking around me,,, IN MY HOME or within a breaths length,,,



tulip2633's photo
Thu 01/07/16 01:04 PM

If I don't know you, don't touch me.
If it's our first conversation, don't tell me your entire life story.



Exactly!

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Thu 01/28/16 06:01 AM
I think my major boundaries are with guys. Affectionate gestures are fine with me but I hate it when a guy lingers way too long for a cordial hug or handshake.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 01/28/16 07:29 AM



You have your own parking spot at work? Someone is a big dog. :tongue: laugh


:thumbsup: Not a big dog just the only woman that works here... Well that and I threaten them all if they took my spot..

The owners, maintenance man, QI guy and I are the ones that have set parking spots..

Humm plus it helps that my brother is one of the owners....bigsmile

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Thu 01/28/16 06:28 PM
My personal space is my home....go anywhere you want, go to the bar and fix yourself a drink, make me one while you are at it, visit the john etc etc...but dont even think of smoking , and never go into my bedroom...that is strictly off limits.....then, if you want a ride in my car...do not smoke an hour before getting in...or you are taking the bus...lol...just saying...

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