Does anyone share the same view as me?
I have a desire to share love, intimacy, and companionship; wanting to experience personal growth; providing emotional and physical support to each other; and hoping to create a family.
I don't have fear of being alone, I used to be afraid of experiencing break up, and not wanting to lose my connection to my significant other’s friends or family.
Our personality traits don’t have to be the same, but if you we want different things from the relationship we may have a hard
time making it last but our differences will complement each other for the foreseeable future.
Is anyone thinking the same way as I think?

There's always someone out there thinking the way you think. It's a big world, you just gotta have the patience to find them.

You seem like a nice, earnest, sincere guy. I wish you luck in your search, man. Keep your chin up, stay positive, and you'll find her :)

No I dont, simply because you used the word desire.

Thanks man, I really appreciate

That's what my heart is longing for. It's my heart desire

Good luck and I hope 2016 brings you joy.

I wouldn't mind what you state, but I'm past the point in desiring it.

All the best.

I understand what you mean by..

de·sire/dəˈzī(ə)r/
noun

a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen.

verb

strongly wish for or want (something).To long for; crave.


If you came on here, like lots of men do & post ' I need '..it would come off as . . Too insecure.

If you posted ' I want ', like lots of men do, it sometimes sounds like they are placing a food order.

I desire..to have dinner with someone every night, instead of once in awhile.
But I wouldn't say,' I need ' or ' I want '

Yep, I basically think and feel the same way.

Do you really think and feel the same way as I do?
I'll love to get to know you better

The world won't end if I don't get what I desire .Or if I don't get it right away.

Yea.

Yes I do, I actually think that it is the only healthy outlook to have when it comes to a relationship and love.
It's about adding something to each other's life, growing & developing, enjoying etc. etc.
The only thing I don't want from what you say, is a family, cos I've got kids. Most men my age do too, so that's not a problem.

Basically love & relationship is about letting go, you know, "if you love someone, set them free!" as opposed to trying to change the other into something that suits you.
Difficult, most have the tendency to latch on, to cling, because they slip into fear of losing that loved one.
I'm also learning still :) It's quite a shift in mindset. Nothing in society preps us for that. (think of series, role models etc., they all show us how NOT to do it). That takes time and practice.

Everyone has needs, wants, likes , and desires. Expressing them is how we show them. In any relationship, we must express these things or our partners will not be aware. There is nothing wrong with posting what it is you neede, and anyone that disagrees with you doing so, is not for you.

There are so many relationship experts on these dating sites, yet we are all single, wonder why? A relationship is built upon communication, before and during it's existence. I'm obviously no expert in relationships, or I wouldn't be here. At my age, I've learned about life and what's important, so I suggest you communicate as clearly and as thoroughly as possible.

With your communication skill, I believe I can learn from you

Thanks man,,, really hoping to start something new in this new year.

Thank you You're doing a great job yourself!

Hello dear son, I really understand what you mean. God created your heart with so much love in it, that you feel a sort of "traffic" inside, till God gives you that lady who is created for receiving your love, as also loving you in return.

Be blessed in 2016 and be blessed to receive what God has in store for you!
Mom Rev. Vera