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Topic: The types you attract ..
adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Sun 05/01/16 02:06 PM
Of late I seem to attract the bold and the beautiful...I am totally at a loss to understand or explain this....I sometimes feel un worthy of such attention...but then I take a gander in my mirror, and everything seems to be alright...lol....yeah, I am ready for the hate mail I am about to receive ...

BHawkins Joined Sat 05/10/14 Posts: 371	Sun 05/01/16 05:21 PM
For the last few years an abnomal amount of married women and/or black women have been the ones who've at least made it obvious. It's been that way with black women since I was a teenager but the married ones mainly the last 4 years

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 05/01/16 05:32 PM
I must be doing something wrong.. All I ever get are the looky-loos.. Tire kickers..lol.. I don't know if it is my 6-4 height.. are the fact that I might look unapproachable.. I got a lot of women looking but nobody really approaches.. and starts up a conversation.. I can go an entire week this way women look but that's as far as it ever goes... and I just don't have the skill set to be the one initiating the mating dance..lol.. sincerely ..okay looking ,lonely and broken hearted.. WHAT!..lol

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 05/01/16 05:34 PM
Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s

BHawkins Joined Sat 05/10/14 Posts: 371	Sun 05/01/16 05:41 PM
Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s It's the opposite for me :/

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Sun 05/01/16 05:58 PM
I keep attracting much younger (at least by almost 20 years) big girls And the males are also very young too. 25+...

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Sun 05/01/16 06:00 PM
Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s It's the opposite for me :/ I concur, I have no issues meeting ppl offline. I think online folks have too many deep rooted issues that even Sigmund Freud can't dig out.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sun 05/01/16 08:18 PM
lost boys sad sacks lonesome losers mama's boys desperados and basket cases

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Sun 05/01/16 08:41 PM
That may not be about you, it could very well be the types of men that sign up for the sites you use...

AdrianT26 Joined Thu 04/28/16 Posts: 3	Mon 05/02/16 01:23 PM
All types...there were a few great people,some nice people and loads of crazy people :D

Mary_Malone Joined Sat 12/19/15 Posts: 223	Mon 05/02/16 02:49 PM
I always seemed to get tall men.

ErotiDoug Joined Wed 03/04/15 Posts: 1081	Mon 05/02/16 03:09 PM
Told about this before ... - When I was seriously attracted to this Scot ... I got steeped with PMs from Scottish men - When I had the hots for an Italian man ... I suddenly got loads of PMs from Italian men - When I was focused on NOT wanting a loser ... I got losers only Law of Attraction, you can tell what YOU yourself exude by what you attract. The other day, a good-looking guy with a nice feel. Approached him, he was very interested too. We got talking. It went really well, felt good, was flirty and playful. These days I ask pretty soon how tall a man is, as it's a dealbreaker. He was 1.80m (just an inch taller than me). Dammit! Not the one. I really need a taller man to feel good. But I figured I could still date him (He'd mentioned that). However ... immediately after my THOUGHT "Dammit, he's not the one for me" he withdrew. Convo went down the drain and within minutes he said he had to spent time with his kids. Shortly after he'd removed me from his contact list. Isn't that amazing? I hadn't even said anything, yet somehow he did pick up on the vibe that something had changed. And right that very minute, second even, things changed between us. In real life, fair enough, but this even works online. This Law of Attraction business is really incredible and can teach you a lot if you pay heed. If you just pay heed to the types you attract, you know what you yourself put out there, what your own vibe is. They are just a reflection of that. * Panthers (slang) run to my Profile and are very relaxed to yak-yak-yak . They are on a different world then I. But are happy to relate and talk about what is going on in their world. * Shockingly they are always very polite, so I find it very nice. ** fun to have 5 to 15 notes, waiting for my sign-on.

fitque2491 Joined Mon 05/02/16 Posts: 28	Mon 05/02/16 03:36 PM
Girls love fitness :)

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Tue 05/03/16 10:14 AM
Girls love fitness :) Im very fit naturally, so IF I were on the market I will want a person that is in shape and has a nice body. I WONT start off with an obese person and expect that person t have the desire to get is shape afterwards. They never seem to want to.

latersbaby65 Joined Tue 05/03/16 Posts: 43	Tue 05/03/16 10:25 PM
on losers an users for sum reason. I must hve stupid across my forehead

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Tue 05/03/16 10:27 PM
LoL

BHawkins Joined Sat 05/10/14 Posts: 371	Wed 05/04/16 03:46 AM
on losers an users for sum reason. I must hve stupid across my forehead Switch to women ...they are better ;)

Twintidbits24 Joined Tue 07/28/15 Posts: 825	Wed 05/04/16 03:55 AM
"The types you attract .." I keep attracting law officers. I wonder why. Coz you looked "Unique" That is Why

brainsandall Joined Sat 05/14/16 Posts: 73	Sat 05/14/16 08:05 PM
I seem to attract the guy with little to no ambition, maybe no job, guys that say "I am too busy" or "getting myself together" so they can't text or call for days or weeks. Kind of like thugs or bad boys just without the record lol. It's weird, guess I portray something that I never realized to other people, not sure what though.

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Sat 05/14/16 08:55 PM
i just attracted the most beautiful woman I have ever seen....true story...but under the circumstances ...friends is all we can hope for ...dang!