Topic: Good Questions / Conversation starters
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Mon 12/28/15 12:15 PM



Mmmmm, I might ask:
Do you like pets?
Can you give..without expectations?
Do you share?
Are you kind, compassionate?
Have you a killer wit?
Have you any wits at all?


What of the person is in the Witless Protection Program?



My answer would be I would enjoy going to one of those retreats in the mountains where each couple gets a cabin but they have some fun out doors stuff planned like BBQ, Hayride, nature walk, fly fishing lessons, some kind of craft, maybe gold panning , and a patio dance. Something casual but leave some time for real conversations and maybe a little romance.

You call that outdoor fun blushing

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Mon 12/28/15 12:19 PM

Mmmmm, I might ask:
Do you like pets?
Can you give..without expectations?
Do you share?
Are you kind, compassionate?
Have you a killer wit?
Have you any wits at all?



flowerforyou flowerforyou

mightymoe's photo
Mon 12/28/15 12:29 PM


sounds like those dumb questions from "the dating game"... seems like women like to set themselves up to be lied to, by asking dumb questions like this...

Oh FFS Moe ... Can you stop being a mood killer! I just done a chairdance, I'm happy, get with the program will ya!

And it's all hypothetical, so there's no being lied to. It's just a nice way to see if someone has some imagination or not.
Level one of weeding through the crowd, lol


i've been called a lot of things, but never a mood killer...:wink: first time for everything...laugh laugh

TMommy's photo
Mon 12/28/15 12:38 PM
Edited by TMommy on Mon 12/28/15 12:41 PM
are you registered as a sex offender
can I see your medical file
what is your ex wife's phone number

oh wait no yes or no questions


if you could be any kind of monster ( real or imagined) what kind would you choose and why

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Mon 12/28/15 12:40 PM

are you registered as a sex offender
can I see your medical file
what is your ex wife's phone number


I was getting ready to type that one question.. Can I see your medical file? Good one.

Hi T! waving flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 12/28/15 12:42 PM




Mmmmm, I might ask:
Do you like pets?
Can you give..without expectations?
Do you share?
Are you kind, compassionate?
Have you a killer wit?
Have you any wits at all?


What of the person is in the Witless Protection Program?



My answer would be I would enjoy going to one of those retreats in the mountains where each couple gets a cabin but they have some fun out doors stuff planned like BBQ, Hayride, nature walk, fly fishing lessons, some kind of craft, maybe gold panning , and a patio dance. Something casual but leave some time for real conversations and maybe a little romance.

You call that outdoor fun blushing


LOL Well what starts outdoors often ends up indoors thus the nice comfortable and private cabins. pitchfork :banana: :wink:

TMommy's photo
Mon 12/28/15 12:51 PM


are you registered as a sex offender
can I see your medical file
what is your ex wife's phone number


I was getting ready to type that one question.. Can I see your medical file? Good one.

Hi T! waving flowerforyou

hello lovely lady hope you are having a wonderful day flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/28/15 01:31 PM



sounds like those dumb questions from "the dating game"... seems like women like to set themselves up to be lied to, by asking dumb questions like this...

Oh FFS Moe ... Can you stop being a mood killer! I just done a chairdance, I'm happy, get with the program will ya!

And it's all hypothetical, so there's no being lied to. It's just a nice way to see if someone has some imagination or not.
Level one of weeding through the crowd, lol


i've been called a lot of things, but never a mood killer...:wink: first time for everything...laugh laugh

I feel honoured to have been your first! blushing

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/28/15 01:32 PM

are you registered as a sex offender
can I see your medical file
what is your ex wife's phone number

oh wait no yes or no questions


if you could be any kind of monster ( real or imagined) what kind would you choose and why

That could render some insightful answers, hahaha.
Let's call that "The Fruitcake" test laugh

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/28/15 01:35 PM
PACIFIC STAR
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My answer would be I would enjoy going to one of those retreats in the mountains where each couple gets a cabin but they have some fun out doors stuff planned like BBQ, Hayride, nature walk, fly fishing lessons, some kind of craft, maybe gold panning , and a patio dance. Something casual but leave some time for real conversations and maybe a little romance.

Now that I really like!
Don't tell me I gotta start seeing women now in order to have a good time ohwell tears

no1phD's photo
Mon 12/28/15 01:40 PM
I prefer to go with this, tried and truly tested conversation starter. .
Excuse me miss ,but does this rag smell like chloroform to you..lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/28/15 01:45 PM

I prefer to go with this, tried and truly tested conversation starter. .
Excuse me miss ,but does this rag smell like chloroform to you..lol

So No1 ... tell me ... if you could be any kind of monster ( real or imagined) what kind would you choose and why?
:laughing:

char003's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:03 AM
Crystal, I would take you to Freeport, Grand Bahamas for 5 days. Been there 10 + times.
Char

EmJ1504's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:16 AM
I like to ask random questions seeing how random the answers can be...

If you could have any super power, what would you choose?
What 5 people (dead/alive/fictional) would you invite to a dinner party?
If money were no object, where would you like to have a second home?
If you got to be a fictional character for a day, who would you be?

You know, simple little things. Problem is you have to be ready with your own answers as most will answer then say "What about you?" I only let them off with this a couple of times...come up with your own questions mate!

If they find my questions silly then they have no imagination or aren't creative or don't enjoy getting to know people, so I'm quite happy for them to jog on.

Yeah...I'm still single!

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:24 AM

Mmmmm, I might ask:
Do you like pets?
Can you give..without expectations?
Do you share?
Are you kind, compassionate?
Have you a killer wit?
Have you any wits at all?



You just want to hear the guys say..

yes...yes....Yes...Yes...YEs.....YEEESSS!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:24 AM

Crystal, I would take you to Freeport, Grand Bahamas for 5 days. Been there 10 + times.
Char

That sounds real good! waving

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:27 AM

I like to ask random questions seeing how random the answers can be...

If you could have any super power, what would you choose?
What 5 people (dead/alive/fictional) would you invite to a dinner party?
If money were no object, where would you like to have a second home?
If you got to be a fictional character for a day, who would you be?

You know, simple little things. Problem is you have to be ready with your own answers as most will answer then say "What about you?" I only let them off with this a couple of times...come up with your own questions mate!

If they find my questions silly then they have no imagination or aren't creative or don't enjoy getting to know people, so I'm quite happy for them to jog on.

Yeah...I'm still single!

Yes, that type of question can be really good and render some good and even fun conversation. Although I'd rather ask the superpower question in person when there's a nice, relaxed vibe. Because then it can go anywhere, to funny and even in depth. Online it might not work so well.

I like the one about the 2nd home!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:28 AM


Mmmmm, I might ask:
Do you like pets?
Can you give..without expectations?
Do you share?
Are you kind, compassionate?
Have you a killer wit?
Have you any wits at all?



You just want to hear the guys say..

yes...yes....Yes...Yes...YEs.....YEEESSS!

That's more what I hope I end up saying ... or screaming :angel:

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:29 AM

I like to ask random questions seeing how random the answers can be...

If you could have any super power, what would you choose?
What 5 people (dead/alive/fictional) would you invite to a dinner party?
If money were no object, where would you like to have a second home?
If you got to be a fictional character for a day, who would you be?

You know, simple little things. Problem is you have to be ready with your own answers as most will answer then say "What about you?" I only let them off with this a couple of times...come up with your own questions mate!

If they find my questions silly then they have no imagination or aren't creative or don't enjoy getting to know people, so I'm quite happy for them to jog on.

Yeah...I'm still single!


Yea bugs me to try to talk with someone and they use more energy avoiding the questions than just answering them and actually revealing anything interesting about themselves.

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Fri 01/01/16 07:49 AM
First of all, in defense of Mighty Mo, I also grew up in what will one day be known historically as The Age Of The Game Show, which will eventually be recognized as the true cause of the following era, known as The Age Of The Political Campaign By Soundbite. So when someone DOES do one of these "ask a single question to a bunch of people as a test" things, that's the first thing I think of.

But I see no harm in playing the game, as long as everyone knows it IS a game.

The first suggested question, about a three day all expenses paid first date, is tricky to answer anything but flippantly, so I also understand why a lot of guys would say they have no idea. I personally suspect that their answer has less to do with the deduction that they have "no imagination," than that many of us have faced trick questions many times, and learned the hard way, to be cautious.

If I take the question seriously instead, a real answer would very likely blow up in my face (I've had that exact scenario many times), because I WOULD think things through thoroughly. The world is full of fabulous places to go and experience.

But setting all those cautions and considerations aside, I think the main question I would have, is based on the most crucial element that has affected my relationship life:

"Why do you want to be in a relationship with someone like me? Is it because of me, or just because you want to be in a relationship with SOMEONE?"