did u take a big hit??... the house.. car..
retirement..everything??????????????????????????????????????

I WAS ENGAGED I LOST MY APARTMENT JOB AND MY CAR

bummer!!

YEAH THAT WAS LAST CHRISTMAS I BROKE UP WITH HER AND IM STILL TRING TO
GET SHIT TOGETHER

lmfaoooo hell no..she's the one that got fucked over in the divorce. I
kept BOTH cars and sold the house and kept all the proceeds ($101,000).
It gets even better, I took her off the car insurance before the
divorce(which she didn't know about). When she came to "borrow" one of
my cars while I was at work, I called the cops and reported it stolen
when I got home.
Am I a prick?? An asshole?? Nope...she decided the stress of me being in
a coma for 5 days was too much and needed some comfort so she hopped
into the bed of another man.
That's 1 for the guys ;-)

yep. i lost 50 grand as well and was married only 6 monthes! i cought
her f-cking the baseball coach red handed!... it really sucks!

LOST ABOUT 140 POUNDS.

LMAO!!... thats a good one!

lost my self esteem, my respect for myself, and my pride

got most of my self esteem back, all my respect, and most of my pride

little by little i'll have it all back again

and then i'll love myself enough to love again


oh..and i lost 50lbs too

Hi ellgee.

he destroyed my credit, i walked away with what was mine and left him
everything else. i even had to pay for his car, but he didn't have the
decency to make the mortgage payments and sent the house into
foreclosure. took me 3+ yrs to reestablish my credit.

hey bill :D

i've never been married and i probably never will. i gaurantee you she
wouldn't get shit though. i like your comment animal because i can be
the sweetest person in the world or the biggest dick in the world, it's
their choice. lol what can i say, i'm always willing to give them which
ever one they want lol

I also lost:
my career of 14 years;
my friends (relocated to his military post);
my grandfather and grandmother died while I was away;
my self-esteem;
my self-worth;
my inheritence, althought small;
and most importantly, I lost what I thought was my best friend.

I was wrong about him being my best friend ~ and losing all that was
worth one STD-free night of sleep.

Does common law marriage counts because I still got him ,but he's just
my roommate now LOL.

guess I got out lucky...the only thing I lost was th mother of my
child...oh,,,huh? no loss there then either,for my lil' girl
is now grown and married to th same man for many years....M.

i have to say lifes only gotten better since divorce :)

I lost my home that was renting,my car,my clothes everything that I had
he either stole or cut and broke it up

yep. i can say i got screwed!... the bitch took it all and im the 1 that
cought her screwing up stairs a school teacher!

Good for you, Animal! I lost a good friend...(the one who was sleeping
w/ my ex behind my back), trust, self-assurance....but I am really
gaining back so much more. Glad to be divorced now.