Topic: how much did u lose in your divorce???
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Sat 11/18/06 11:58 PM
me 2... 4 23 years!

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Sat 11/18/06 11:58 PM
I gained..my life...material shit didn't matter because he had desroyed
it all any way, I got my life and my sons life, I didn't need or want
anything else.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:01 AM
Amen, poet. The havoc that crap can wreak on our kids.....my girls miss
him, but are more confident now.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:03 AM
yep. its a scary thing 4 sure.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:07 AM
my son had nothing to miss, he never knew his father, his dad wanted
nothing to do with him.So I see it as this, its his fathers loss not my
sons.I was married at 18, had my son a month after I turned 19, three
months after that I was divorced.I had a choice to make divorce or
death, I chose the right one.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:09 AM
yep. i think you did.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:13 AM
You have great strength, poet. I am sure your son is quite fortunate in
your being his mother.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:17 AM
and i am very fortunate he is my son, he's a good man :)

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Sun 11/19/06 12:18 AM
wow hun..I'm glad you made the right choice too. Thank God for kids!!
You're not the only lady I've met that has told me that if it wasn't for
their child(ren)....

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Sun 11/19/06 12:21 AM
there are so many of us out there, its sad really, no one should have to
live that way or go through it.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:29 AM
I know Poet, EVERY woman I've been involved with(except my 1st wife) has
told me about the abuse they dealt with and it breaks my heart every
time I hear about it. I just recently lost a friend who was beat to
death by her husband :-(

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Sun 11/19/06 12:32 AM
may he rot in hell!!!!!!!!! sorry I get very angry about that..I am
sorry for your and for her loss. Dammit when are people going to learn
that human beings are not punching bags, tha human life is precious...

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Sun 11/19/06 12:36 AM
no need to apologize hun, I've said MUCH worse about that fkin maggot.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:37 AM
Sick bastards. A friend of mine was killed by her ex a couple years ago
while she was delivering papers in the middle of the night. He'd seen
her and her friend talking to some guys earlier, so he waited and drank
until she went out on her route, ran her off the road, unloaded one gun
into her, got a second and emptied that, then called the cops and sat
waiting for them, drinking his beer.

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Sun 11/19/06 12:41 AM
I LOST MY HEART!

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Sun 11/19/06 12:45 AM
HE SHOULDA" LOST HIS ASS! I loved him and to prove I did... left with
only MY things, nothing more.

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Sun 11/19/06 07:33 AM
Well I guess I didn't "lose" it all. I pretty much gave it to here for
the kids sake! All in all about 50 grand!!

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Sun 11/19/06 07:34 AM
here=her
LMAO
All is good now though. Like poet says, material things can be replaced.
It's the heart that has to mend!

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Sun 11/19/06 07:42 AM
I have not gone through my divorce yet. But we have sat down and talked
about everything. His job takes him all over the world so I get the
kids. (two are still at home) and I have not found a job to support me
and the kids yet, so as soon as I find one then we will file.

Will let ya all know what happens... *S*

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Sun 11/19/06 07:47 AM
tneal... hang in their. how long was you married?