To me and many people I have stated this to. love and hate must be equal to be happy with some one your with. if you love them more than you hate them they may or will walk all over you. but if you hate them more than you love them when your with a person you will want to leave them and will get tired of them. but once you find a equal balance of love and hate you look past there flaws and know when they are getting out of line it’s the perfect type of love and respect every one needs and deserves.

So any views on this?

If you are too comfortable you don't grow

true and thats one reson why i think this is true.

Well they say..Love and Hate walk a fine line!!!!!!!!!!

I don't think it's hate though that you want in a relationship...I think it's boundaries and the abilty to know what is acceptable and what isn't to you in a relationship and to voice it!!!!!!!!

Working it out or compromising would be the middle ground I think!!!!!!!!

FOCUS MORE ON LOVE THAN HATE AND DON'T DRAW ANY FINE LINES AMONG THEM

Honestly, I have never hated anyone I love or have loved. There have been times when I love someone, but don't like them very much at the moment (and I'm sure people have felt that way about me too). Everyone has faults and shortcomings. I've learned over the years that a person has to decide what is acceptable and unacceptable to them in regard to another person. It's compromise, not worrying about the small stuff, and to some degree unconditional love. If for some reason, a person in my life does not want to change or grow, and continues to hurt then it's time to move on. If there are too many unacceptable traits in a person you're with -- it's probably time to move on there also.

i do not hate anyone

i think you are saying or talking about your own self esteem and having to be comfortable with yourself and loving yourself not to allow someone to walk all over you and being able to disagree without anger. it is okay to be angry- it is how you express it that matters. loving someone means communication to say hey this bothers me or i am getting bored.
i do not think you have to balance love and hate!!!
if that was the case you would always be at risk to off set the balance...

If you love and hate everyone you can never be judged prejudicial. You truly walk a fine line. This instant coffee, instant gratification, instant karma loser liberal politically correct society we are being forced to live in is pushing us in that direction. Think about it. They pass useless laws for hate crimes for laws already on the books for these situations. So now I have to say I love everybody and hate everybody in context so I won't be accused and convicted of a hate crime because its turning into a copout excuse to go after individuals who voice their freedom of speech rights. Gotta protect yourself the thought police are at your door. Don't bargain with your freedoms. Or you won't have any.

wtf? love and hate them? geeeeeez this sounds too stupid to be true....why does hate have to be in the equation?

Are you saying that if that person loves you more than you love him, you have the upper hand?

It sounds like a bunch of games to me.....

I just choose to love to hate

In context? If you have a love/hate relationship and it works? Fine. I see these kind of relationships and I'm glad the couple are together because they are usually both crazy and if they were with any other people they would be making two normal people miserable. But if this is not how you feel life should be lived its time to move on. Hope that helps.

dont make me hate you!!!

cant we all just love one another

I don't hate anyone...
Found the best way to treat people is with love.

If some one is walking over you- it is because you are letting them.
Kill them with kindness- even your enimies...
Works for me!

For me I don't buy that thinking. When two people Love one another there need not be Hatred to counter balance the action because Love doesn't walk all over you in the first place and Love isn't so fearful of negative behaviors to be concerned about counter actions.

Saying Love = Hate is like equating Light = Dark...it just doesn't work nor co exsist. When the light is on there is light Darkness is no more.

Love + Forgiveness or Love + Faults now those coexsist and they are also very much worable, yet the common factor not to be forgotten is Love.

Cheers

To check my theory I will use gypsy as an example.thank you for being my gunea pig. Now let's say I was to make a comment that I hate her because she's a canadian woman. Our retarded law makes it so I am liable for that so she can sue me for everything from slander, defamation, pain and suffering, loss of companionship from flaming eric, to lost wages and benefits. But because we can't voice our opinion anymore and to protect myself from the hate crime law I'm forced to say I'm misunderstood and you misunderstood me. I meant I hate everybody and therefore you can't charge me with a hate crime. But I love everybody too. So you can't charge me with a love crime. No canadians were harmed in the making of this presentation and no insinuations objective or otherwise were meant or inferred by the solicitor. Void where prohibited by law. I love gypsy she's so funny.

Too deep?

Don't hate me cuz I'm beautiful.

^^^ LMFAO @ longhaired biker

Now whats this about Canadain women? Doh! lol...nahhhhhh forget I asked lol