He promise to visit me but he fails not only once but twice...

Broken promises. He stood you up twice now. If he can't keep his words then just let him go. Do you really want a guy that won't make time for you? You're better than that!

woman use your head
if a man wants to see or spend time with you
he will make it happen


if he does not
and makes excuses


he is NOT that into you

dont worry...he'll meet u...patience and believe in yourself and in your love!!! there must be something wrong...!!!!

hmm, do you smell that? its the coffee... wake up and smell the coffee!~
He is obviously unreliable..
All talk and no action...
Stop wasting your time and move onto someone else..

listen carefully to your conscience!!! answer is within "you"

Are you?
Or are you just sitting around waiting for him to do everything?


Why don't you visit him?
Or have you?

Is he promising to visit you at a specific time and not showing up?

Or is he promising to visit you sometime or generally and then things come up?

And is he actually promising? Or are you just interpreting what he says as a promise?

And how far away is he?
Is he in another country?
Or across town?

And how long have you two been whatevering, talking, dating, emailing?


And why are you posting this to a dating site forum?
Did you talk to him about it?

Yep I agree with RustyKitty,

If a person likes you,
They MAKE time for you
And put other things off!!

I can excuse being late, "stuff" happens but no show if they can't document "broken bones or massive blood loss foooooore-Get about it."

Do it twice not going to happen. That goes to the thing fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

no he's not cut contact and move on

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twice in one day ? ?

Yeah move on

Now there's this dating guru, a bloke, who always says "Men are simple creatures"
Okay, I get that. But you don't have to prove him right ya know

A promise is a promise , and a man with word of honor fulfills his promise and does not break it. If he is really serious about you, he shouldn't disappoint you unless if his excuses are valid or reasonable. Sometimes when you are in love, you are blind to see the truth........but your heart will know........how long have you known him? how deeply do you know him? Only you can discern if he is really true to you.

Story of my life. No, he’s not serious.

what's his name, we'll kick his *** for you.

Is he serious??

There is a saying, 'If you have to ask, you can't afford it".

So the real question is, " Why am I doing this to myself?

He sounds like a winner. Give me his number so I can give it to single chicks I know.

I would say move on....... imagine him promising to marry you and run off on the wedding day