why does it have to be so hard?
i keep telling myself that in the end it will be
worth it.
in the mean time--

Maybe you just haven't found anyone good enough yet, atleast that's what I tell my self. :(

(((Joyce)))

ya, Im hoping one will just magically show up at my doorstep.....or is that the cable guy?!@@

i know,im tired of the losers and the little boys nobody can actually back up what they say,its sad they have to lie to get somone to like them!

keep on trying joyce you are awsome!

alls i know is

it's better to be alone/have friends than to be tied up in the wrong relationship just for the sake of being paired

do your thing regardless

thank you southern_bee

i am not giving up- just not trying so hard and not looking online. concentrating on moving and work.
i guess taking a break--- we all need that.

no thats the culligan man

I can relate
decided to just have friends online
tired of the games
life is too short and I have better things to do than play them (games)

the games are what i hate--
just be honest

You know when your waiting for water to boil, you sit there and watch it, and it appears to take much longer...

The same goes for dating, if its constantly on your mind, then you will be constantly frustrated by not finding someone NOW.

Stop looking, and you will find somebody in (what appears to be) no time...

Its all about perception.

A plus note is, that there are 6,625,892,794 people on the planet, and although you will only meet a fraction of them, how could there not be the perfect person for you out there?

The odds are in your favor!

you are cheerfully optimistic chrish

its funny how people say they are honest but even more funnier when you bust them for a lie no matter how small

if your life wasnt crappy then you dont have to lie im not the most exciting person and im not the prettiest,but im smart and i know i deserve the best and i dont deserve people with no back bone all lie all the time.

plus side-- being single means not worring about anyone, but yourself

very true statement, nurjoyce

and the toilet seat is always down

@ Gypsy

ak0 - I'm just a realist, if an idiot like me can find somebody, then anyone can. Although I am single right now, I've not had a bad history with regards to love, and I'm on good terms with all me ex's - which I'm very proud of.

nurjoyce - Some people relish having to think of other people, or at least when you meet someone you love, you will relish considering them as you go about you day to day life.

i know chrish--
i am a very positive person
see the glass half full
and i think we have control over some of it
kind of like filling your glass up or
getting a smaller glass

realism's good

my exes still love me though i was a bit much to handle apparently. they were merely disappointing to me. yow, that was harsh k.

good for you, southern bee. honesty rules.

Ouch!

I tend to get bored with my partners - I'm no great free thinker or anything (more of a clown), but I find it hard to find somebody who stimulates me intellectually, or is compatible with my sense of humor.

Well there is one girl who can and does, but I'm too **** scared to even think about having a relationship with her - I don't want to ruin it for the sake of getting laid.