Topic: Who do you nudge with Kick in the Bum?
1Marie63's photo
Thu 11/19/15 04:45 PM
I have a good friend on here that kicks me in the butt 3-4 times a day as well as uses some of the other nudges. I have used the nudges with 3 different people. I see it as just another way to joke/flirt among friends. I ignore the nudges from strangers.

EmJ1504's photo
Thu 11/19/15 04:48 PM
Just a way of letting people know I am online, though never used the Kick yet, I'm reserving that for a special occasion.

graygentleman's photo
Thu 11/19/15 10:02 PM

The site should add "head slap" to the repertoire of nudges.



PacificStar48's photo
Thu 11/19/15 11:11 PM
While I have long liked the NCIS program I have NOT liked the head slap marker and actually wrote the program and several of their Sponsors because I saw it being mimicked by children and unfortunately some parents; a dangerous practice on several levels.

I don't think I have used the kick in the butt nudge but I know I have blocked people who have thinking it would get my attention. I find it demeaning and very disrespectful to put your feet on others. Someone tried kicking my bum it in real life; even playing around they would be likely to have assault charges filed on them. And I am generally a big practical joker in personal relationships.

I do wish we had a thumbs down icon when someone posts something I really find offensive because sometimes I think silence sends a minimal form of endorsement to many.

no photo
Fri 11/20/15 05:12 AM
Edited by joethebricky on Fri 11/20/15 05:14 AM
Would be interesting to use in real life.

Walk up to some chic in a bar and give her a gentle kick in the a$$

I wonder how that would go down.

I'll let you all know ohwell




no photo
Fri 11/20/15 07:23 AM
All of the nudges are annoying in my opinion...

no photo
Fri 11/20/15 10:34 AM
Why use something that no one seems to pay any attention too? I've gotten one or two since 2012. Sent about the same since 2012.

no photo
Fri 11/20/15 10:43 AM

Would be interesting to use in real life.

Walk up to some chic in a bar and give her a gentle kick in the a$$

I wonder how that would go down.

I'll let you all know ohwell



What kind of peanuts do you like. I will through you a few now and again as you rest up in the calaboose!drinker





Jaan Doh 's photo
Fri 11/20/15 10:59 AM

A kick in the butt usually gets my message across but sometimes I have to take it to the next level!




Hahaha...
Taking it to the next level...
rofl rofl



There's a kick in bum nudge?
Hahaha shows how much I know my way around mingle lol
:laughing:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 11/20/15 03:38 PM
I think I gotten one once or twice. But I never look at nudges so it could be heaps by now.
I don't use them myself either.
If someone wants to get in touch, they can send a message.
Same on other sites with "wink" features. Even when they can message you for free, they send a wink. So lame. If a guy doesn't have the baws to send me a nice message, then don't bother at all :tongue:

TMommy's photo
Fri 11/20/15 03:42 PM

I think I gotten one once or twice. But I never look at nudges so it could be heaps by now.
I don't use them myself either.
If someone wants to get in touch, they can send a message.
Same on other sites with "wink" features. Even when they can message you for free, they send a wink. So lame. If a guy doesn't have the baws to send me a nice message, then don't bother at all :tongue:
you damn skippy sista :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

no1phD's photo
Fri 11/20/15 04:54 PM

Just a way of letting people know I am online, though never used the Kick yet, I'm reserving that for a special occasion.
Drops his pants and bend over and grabs..his ankles.. I think the special occasion has arrived

1Marie63's photo
Fri 11/20/15 05:29 PM
You drop your pants for a kick in the butt? Damn I been doing that wrong slaphead

Been2LongSince's photo
Fri 11/20/15 09:03 PM
No use for the nudges in my opinion. I get nudges from obvious fake profiles and scammers all the time. It's just a useless and annoying system.


EmJ1504's photo
Sat 11/21/15 04:31 PM


Just a way of letting people know I am online, though never used the Kick yet, I'm reserving that for a special occasion.
Drops his pants and bend over and grabs..his ankles.. I think the special occasion has arrived


You sure it's a kick you are preparing for?surprised spock

lilyana99's photo
Tue 12/01/15 10:01 PM
Never had the pleasure!

mzrosie's photo
Tue 12/01/15 10:29 PM
I don't do nudges. But there was a woman from two years ago, who sent me a kick in the butt. I didn't know her... so what the heck did I do?

I would never send anyone a kick in the butt, even if they deserve it. Why bother? I would use BLOCK.

Now let's dance...


Annierooroo's photo
Wed 12/02/15 01:10 AM
I got my last 20 days ago before that 2 months

I still think they are rude

mysticalview21's photo
Wed 12/02/15 07:07 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 12/02/15 07:14 AM


I nudge with a kick in the bum those who I recognize, those whom I am not able to send a message too due to their criteria, those who do not respond and I got this for you too :tongue:

(I have one other reason but for now I'll keep that one a secret)

Anyone else who uses the kick in the bum nudge? Feel free to share ...



I have a few people I kick in the butt ... if I can get my leg off the floor that daylaugh ... but its in a loving manner ... :heart: oops I have not nudge anyone on here... or believe had to block anyone... so I am good ...

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 12/02/15 08:11 AM
I personally have used that nudge, imo I think it's the most 'playful'..

.sent you kiss(presumptuous much?)...

.sent you a wink(better than the kiss..but still only one meaning..you're pretty)

....sent you nudge(so I tapped you in the shoulder and asked for directions?)

Sent you a kick in the butt(seems more playful to me...but I understand if taken literal it could be considered rude)