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Topic: Why are tall, country men so hard to find?
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 11/30/15 04:51 PM
Was excited to have a baby but when she was born didn't want to take care of her and ever since we broke up in January he hasn't wanted to even see her Yep. That price is commonly paid by young women who decide to make a baby before getting married. So sad.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 11/30/15 05:13 PM
Good Evening. Was thinking of you reading a nice little book called Achieve Your Dreams by Kathleen Russell and Larry Wall ISBN o 9635176-3-5 Hope you will put it on your Christmas list as a nice little daily hug. Couple stuck in my mind for you. The Key to happiness and success is to have a dream. Happiness is the journey...not the destination. Give your troubles to God. He will be up all night anyway. Don't let lack of praise...nip you in the bud. A goal is a dream on a deadline. The reward of a job well done is being the one who did it. Some people succeed because they're destined to. MOST succeed because they are DETERMINED to. Any concer too small to be made into a prayer, is too small to be made into a burden. (((((((CHELLE242))))))

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 11/30/15 06:15 PM
Was excited to have a baby but when she was born didn't want to take care of her and ever since we broke up in January he hasn't wanted to even see her Yep. That price is commonly paid by young women who decide to make a baby before getting married. So sad. its often paid by young women who decide to make babies with deadbeats,, married or not although few 'decide' to do such a thing,, they 'decide' to have a family with someone they love and only realize they are deadbeats when its too late

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 11/30/15 06:15 PM
Was excited to have a baby but when she was born didn't want to take care of her and ever since we broke up in January he hasn't wanted to even see her Yep. That price is commonly paid by young women who decide to make a baby before getting married. So sad. its often paid by young women who decide to make babies with deadbeats,, married or not although few 'decide' to do such a thing,, they 'decide' to have a family with someone they love and only realize they are deadbeats when its too late

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 11/30/15 06:59 PM
My last comment was a simple observation.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 11/30/15 07:07 PM
For what it is worth, it is my opinion that Chelle242 should make raising her baby a higher priority than her finding another guy right away. Plenty of single new moms do so and find a good guy later down the road.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 11/30/15 07:19 PM
I agree, romance should never be the goal it should be a natural consequence of a friendship

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 11/30/15 07:22 PM
last I checked takes two to make a baby

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 11/30/15 07:28 PM
How Chelle242 ended up the way she is now is water under the bridge. What matters is that she make wise decisions from this time forward. Now is not a good time for her to seek romance. That can come later. Besides, the right man for her might not be either tall or a "country" guy.

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Mon 11/30/15 07:51 PM
All I want is a sweet, caring, country guy that is around my age. Instead of that, I'm getting old and creepy they are in the city.. they just look short because of the skyscrapers

Friendly_Woman Joined Mon 04/27/15 Posts: 728	Tue 12/01/15 05:08 AM
Then maybe go tothe more countryside parts of the US. What about Texas ? There's bound to be some there.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Tue 12/01/15 05:24 AM
Haha yea you're right about me living in the middle of no where but the rest not so much. The debt thing, no debt cause it's grants honey. And if by raising another mans kid you mean being a father figure and treat the kid like their own then yea you're right. Just because I have a kid and am going to college doesn't mean I'm unemployed laying around doing nothing cause in reality, I'm working full time, taking care of my daughter and going to school part time. Maybe you shouldn't assume Ignore it young Lady and be good to you and your kid. All the best for the future.