i just want someone nice and caring. Has God taken away the Good Men.

One of the existing good men is here for u... Aw are u doing babe?

As if Evakiss wants to date someone who lives far away from her.

It all depends on the definition of good men to each woman?

There are several good men & women on here. I would say that is evident from my short interacting in the forums!

It takes lot's of time, effort and patience.
Pray about it,and love yourself,
You have to enjoy your own company..first.
Best wishes

Not all of them

Unfortunately for me, no God hasn't taken them away. I might get a shot otherwise.

Unfortunately for you, God hasn't made any effort to mark the bums with neon lights or anything, so you have to work that out for yourself. Like the rest of life.

perhaps they are attending church

Looking to skip the drama and BS of relationships! Wanna hang with a fun girl. Looking for the intelligent, loving, caring and charismatic girl publically, but a freak in the sheets at home ;)

Hi! What are some of the qualities that you look for in a "good man?"

Can you name some of these qualities for me please?

Are all the good men gone? Mmmm

That's a good question!
I believe we are still here but you must separate the tare from the wheat & this just takes some time...

People waste time (valuable time) they search for so long & then just latch onto the 1st open door. but in the front of your mind you already know that its not going to work as you both already know the connection was not there (from the start)...

so stop searching adamantly & just relax & enjoy your time as young, free & single - enjoy not having to answer to anyone, to come & go as you please.... get to "know thy self" embrace yourselves (Be yourselves) & then when you meet someone there is nothing but enjoyment..

I could go deeper but that's enough food for thought....

Regards

I have to agree with you

Yes, he took them all to Cleveland.
The rest are rejects now at the pound.
You can get you one before they are, well,
put out of their misery.

The cost is steep though.
You must surrender preconceived notions,
and see men as having the same flaws as yourself.

Of course a fair and just God who says so much about love and relationships has purposefully taken every good man and hidden them from you because He has no sense of forgiveness for anything you might have done that would justify you having a Good man.

Come on you have to know that is a bogus idea. Sounds ridiculous when you take it to it's conclusion as and idea doesn't it?

There are good men out there and men who are still God's works in progress but if you are looking for perfect sorry Baby Girl they crucified that one.

Want help in finding a Godly man? Read a little T.D.Jakes and a little more of your Bible. And start praying for you to recognize the blessings that might be right in front of you if you even try to see them. Godly men are everywhere. Working, volunteering, parenting, worshiping, and socializing in respectful ways.

if you can't believe your prayers will be answered then why pray? I close each day with the fervent belief/prayer that God will bring me the mate he intends to be in my life in his time schedule AND he will give me the strength to live right until he does.

Am I the most patient person? Nope but I pray for that too. lol

Hang in there. Being Christian is not for Sissies.

Is am here for you, a real one from God

I'm good at being bad but God still loves me, no I'm too good really want to be bad but it's just not in my nature.

Lets go deeper then....

What have we been given?
we have been given the breath of life, Gods Spirit.

Can we change the way we look?
No we cannot, so don't try, but we can keep ourselves healthy in terms of mind body & Soul.

Even if a relationship does not work out (i'm not talking about sexual), just dating / interaction / communication, it only means that your not compatible with the chosen person.... so there is no need to disrespect each other (argue) just listen to your Spirit & walk in opposite directions with total respect for each other (Adults not children)....Acceptance...

Therefore its not the point of "is there any good men or women out there its the point of when we/I meet someone just respect each other - Love thy neighbour as thyself...

I can quote the Bible all day but isn't the fundamental message "confess Jesus & believe He died for our sins"? He is Love & Love is not sexual its Love!

do you comprehend?

so just relax & stand in Love don't "fall" in Love....
After all the only people who you cannot walk away from are your family (unconditional) & yourself! So the rest is a bonus...

Very Good young lady lol...

maybe if some of y'all would speak when some of us talk to y'all.