you's a 'playa'....you got game

havent found 'the one' who is the right BALANCE

someone who isnt self absorbed and holier than thou, yet someone who doesnt believe in the minimalist philosophy of just 'be happy and hurt noone'


somewhere in the middle of having some standards but having compassion and understanding of others shortfalls as well as awareness of their own,,,

B/C I literally know no single men, nor do any know me. Thus I'm doing OLD to let single men know I'm available.

Y'know... Sooner or later, that's going to get you banned from the nursing homes...

Too "Over-It" to keep Kissin any more of These Things:



Waiting for the transformation into one of These Things:

I didn't find the right girl

....ya no I do!!!... I have checkers chest monopoly .. and payday my favorite..lol..

Why I'm single.... let's see....

Despite the many tings wrong in my marriage that we could have worked through, it came out that she no longer wanted to have kids (to have or adopt) and that was a deal breaker for me. So we amicably split. That was 5 yrs ago.

I am still single because.... I'm not sure entirely. I can only speculate. I have several close female friends that are unsure why as well.

Online dating has taught me that at 5'7" I am too short for most women.
I am chubby now due to a recent thyroid condition.
I have always been average looking, so... avg looks, short, and chubby means I am usually overlooked??
All my close friends live out of the area/state so my social life is not as good as it could be.
I work from home so I'm also missing work-related socialization.
And being in your 40s and just trying to find someone to date and spend time with is horribly difficult.

It's just easier this way

I am single for t h e first time in 34 years. This is so weird and scary. I hope I meet someone in a reasonable length of time. Got to get the hang of this. I am up for the challenge!

I'm not, but when I was I figured out why and started concerning myself with my happiness, regardless if someone was with me or not. It's difficult at first, but get easier. ..funny thing was when I started to get used to it that's when I found someone.

I'd go to movies by myself (at first) later found a group that met up, and started going with them, I'd search pick-up basketball and volleyball games and go, once I had my own social interests and life, that's when I started meeting people and dating......

looking back I was single because I was 'waiting' for a 'fish' to swim to me, instead of steering my own boat and fishing different lakes

Cos err of d lady out there wants to be single

Spoken wel

Because all the good ones are gone. Well the ones around here

it was not your fault they hid be hide the chainsaws...
a funny
Let's Hide Behind the Chainsaws

https://youtu.be/fs5FWIUqu20

My rose-colored glasses broke

I can't find mutual attraction, and then after that, everything else like common interests and natural conversation that just comes easy.

THAT was *AWESOME* - especially the part where the "killer" facepalms & shakes his head...

Thanks for sharing that, I was feeling kind of cynical tonight, & the laugh dispelled some of that.

WHY? cuz i havent met any woman that can drive a gettaway car yet....LOL...
Looking for my, bonnie......signd clyd,,