i have a guy who's trying to win me back but im not thinking i want to. but yesterday i kept getting text he says were for a friend of his, but i kept getting them saying things like "if i cant have her im gonna dissappear. i couldnt bear to see my kids cuz they're a spitting image of her. i want it all or nothing" and today i got messages to the 'other woman' whom he cheated on me with most recently. saying things like "i dont wanna f*** things up again. ill be your friend, but nothing more take it or leave it." and him saying to her she's just a b**** and he never had feelings for her (when he kept telling her he loved her) but i never had the problem of getting messages from him that weren't meant for me and he says the other person recieved those texts. could it really be a screw up with the phones that i got all of these messages ( 14 in all) or is it just some kind of game for him to try and make me think he's telling people all these things so that i'll take him back after hearing all these things?

He's trying to throw himself a pity party... men are great at that. Just hand him a balloon and some streamers and tell him to have a ball!

I would say mind game for you. My bf has one of those who tries to speak around her for her to get the message. Crazy the level he will go to and will deny doing it no matter what.

A definate game.......don't fall for it !!

don't let the moron suck you in... I've been with 'that guy', was with him for 3 years and been broken up for over a year. He STILL does everything he can to get me back.. but NEVER again!

Didn't you just call the cops on him recently for battery?

sorry honey it sounds like head games to me
best of luck to you tho

yea a few weeks ago. he keeps asking me to drop the charges. toldim he's being charged one way or another cuz the state automatically charges

Ya...ignore him!! Do not take the bait....do not call him ....do not awnser his calls!! I know it is hard because I have been there .....if you need support get it! But do not allow yourself to be put back in that position!!

atleast im not the only one who thinks its a set up

Definately a game. Don't fall for it. Run, run as fast as you can.

He hit you?!!!???? Oh hell to the mother f^ckin NAW... He's tryin to get his control back on you... don't even think about goin back... he could very well be planning to hurt you.

Love that idea Jayme ..

Oh the games people play now .. every night and every day now

I had a very dear friend of mine murder in domestic violence! Please do not give in to him.......

just playing u till he reels u back in...DON'T LET HIM!

I agree with everyone. I have been in a very, very similar situation and I did go back and believed it all and testified on his behalf, etc., etc. fully believing he had learned his lesson and changed. Man, was that stupid!! It takes longer to recoup the longer you are with them. Run like hell! Call the police! He is "harassing" you. He doesn't love you, the other girl or himself. He is a narcissist and a sociopath. He will cause you only pain.

ITS ALL A GAME....SAVE TEXT IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY DELETED
IS THERE A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HIM IF SO CALL POLICE AND SHOW THEM THE TEXT CAUSE THATS STILL CONTACT WITH YOU

the restraining order was up last week. last night i finally opened my mouth and toldim what i thought for everything. now i gotta wait for tax season cuz i gotta expensive lawyer