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Topic: Honestly in a Relationship
msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 10/27/15 09:55 PM
tempered with consideration honesty is the best policy,,,,

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 10/27/15 10:38 PM
Honesty is important in any relationship. There are tactful ways to give someone bad news. (and still be able to have sex) ..umm.ok.. yes darling your breasts are sagging to your knees and you are getting older.... but the good news is I'm spending my Christmas bonus on plastic surgery for you.. .. soooo...can we have sex now..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 10/27/15 10:44 PM
Honesty is important in any relationship. There are tactful ways to give someone bad news. (and still be able to have sex) ..umm.ok.. yes darling your breasts are sagging to your knees and you are getting older.... but the good news is I'm spending my Christmas bonus on plastic surgery for you.. .. soooo...can we have sex now.. That's your idea of tact?? You would be lucky to ever get sex again .. luck has nothing to do with this I get a really big Christmas bonus

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 10/27/15 10:44 PM
Is someone being honest if they believe their own lies ? rhetorical darlings

1Marie63 Joined Sat 09/05/15 Posts: 6737	Tue 10/27/15 10:46 PM
Honesty is important in any relationship. There are tactful ways to give someone bad news. (and still be able to have sex) ..umm.ok.. yes darling your breasts are sagging to your knees and you are getting older.... but the good news is I'm spending my Christmas bonus on plastic surgery for you.. .. soooo...can we have sex now.. That's your idea of tact?? You would be lucky to ever get sex again

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 10/27/15 10:46 PM Edited by no1phD on Tue 10/27/15 10:43 PM
No.. I think that's called being delusional...lol.. This not for you her above you..lol

1Marie63 Joined Sat 09/05/15 Posts: 6737	Tue 10/27/15 10:58 PM
Honesty is important in any relationship. There are tactful ways to give someone bad news. (and still be able to have sex) ..umm.ok.. yes darling your breasts are sagging to your knees and you are getting older.... but the good news is I'm spending my Christmas bonus on plastic surgery for you.. .. soooo...can we have sex now.. That's your idea of tact?? You would be lucky to ever get sex again .. luck has nothing to do with this I get a really big Christmas bonus Probably a good thing. I have a feeling you'll need it

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 10/27/15 11:01 PM
Well if they don't find me charming.. I can always buy my way into their hearts. .lol... just what a woman wants to hear..lol

ChefNetta Joined Tue 10/27/15 Posts: 1	Tue 10/27/15 11:05 PM
Yes I believe it is, if your honest in the beginning, you never know you may have honesty at the end.

Fabulous007 Joined Fri 10/23/15 Posts: 22	Tue 10/27/15 11:38 PM
I disagree with you. There are lots of sincere men out dere and I think one of dem wrote dis..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33280	Wed 10/28/15 06:30 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 10/28/15 06:31 AM
I had to seriously think about this one. Honesty is a weird thing. We all are taught to be it, we all claim to be it, but that itself is a lie. It is not possible to always be honest, at least not in the way what we perceive that to be. Society demands you to lie even. Think about telling your potential new employer that this is truly your dream job. Haven't we all been there? Often all we really want is A job, not that job. We simply need to pay the rent. Employers know that too, yet they still ask the question, expecting you to perform some stupid act of lying to them. And the best actor gets the job... I think real honesty is based on what you feel inside, not what you do or say or see on the outside. In Dutch 'honesty' is 'honourly', so 'honour' is involved. I think that's the core, honour and your conscience. If your wife asks you "Does my bum look big in this", the man should feel/sense that she looks her best, and feels sexy and attractive, even though his eye sees she's not perfect. (Neither is he himself) If all he feels is "Gawwd, you look like a hippopotamus." maybe he should be honest with himself and realize he doesn't love his wife anymore, do the honourable thing (= honest!) and end the relationship. So if a guy says "Darling, you look beautiful!" is he lying? Not necessarily. If he feels, and based on that sees, how beautiful she feels and actually looks, including her bum and tum, he's not lying, is he? And for the record, this goes for men as well... Sometimes it's even the honourable / honest thing to do to NOT tell your partner that you've strayed. As long as you know it was a one time thing, which comes down to honour, respect and being honest with yourself. So again, a feeling, an internal thing. Based on norms and values, honour and not wanting to hurt someone else. What good is honesty if all it does is hurt someone else tremendously? Is that really honest? That would make it a very bad thing...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 10/28/15 08:36 AM
Wow!!.. can't get much more honest than that^^^

VictorThen Joined Sun 10/11/15 Posts: 3	Wed 10/28/15 10:21 AM
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33280	Wed 10/28/15 11:45 AM
Wow!!.. can't get much more honest than that^^^ Hiya No1! I think I should write a book! .. Oh wait!! I am writing a book! But on a slightly different subject We're both good with words, we should've published our rototilling story! Would've done better than 50 Shades Dammit, we could've been millionaires!!

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Fri 10/30/15 06:13 AM
Another way to talk about this, is that a person needs to LIVE honestly/honorably. Too often, people confuse "honesty" with making factual statements in the moment. The most egregious lying scum, manipulative swine on the planet, make strategic, factually accurate statements all the time. That's what makes their life of lies successful. By the way, my apologies to the swine(Sus scrofa) of the world, for using their label to refer to these horrible humans.

Valeris Joined Wed 01/21/15 Posts: 453	Fri 10/30/15 05:50 PM
R-E-S-P-E-C-T! Honesty, Humor, Commonality & Shared Interests.

leonald126 Joined Sat 10/24/15 Posts: 6	Fri 10/30/15 10:34 PM
hello i m new here, i need beautiful, loving and caring lady for an intimate relationship, if interested please reply me.

markmaricic Joined Sat 10/31/15 Posts: 1	Sat 10/31/15 01:08 AM
Hi pretty

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sat 10/31/15 01:22 AM
I'd say it applies to all walks of life I ,2nd that,,, lieing is never good unless its to a cop when he ask you do you know you were doing 120 in a 75 mph speed zone,,,just saying LOL...

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Sat 10/31/15 01:39 AM
no dear those jeans don't make your riiippppp I would rather be told the truth than leave the house looking stupid. By telling me that shows you care.