I need honesty!
I can't seem to attract any women from my area, (Reno, Nevada) the ones I do attract are in Texas, Ohio, or some place a thousand miles or more away, please look at my profile and tell me what I could do different.

Tim

nothing in your profile will help with the lookers tim but you can set your mail filters so they can not message you

Thanks Eric, but I am really dumb on the computer, how do I do that?

Figured it out!

too slow typen lol

Hey Eric set my email filters and still get people from across the country

Ok gonna try this again, can any women please rate my profile.
And please be brutally honest, like I'm ugly, boring, I can take it!

Tim

you list things like going for a drive, camping and then say twice how you do not like to go out


you look mad in your third pic

I would re-write your profile to reflect a more positive outlook this one makes ya sound like a couch potato that likes to sit around every night watching tv


unless of course that is what you are

Thank you TMommy,
I looked at it and realized I did not do those things, by the way not a couch potato, just don't like to go by myself.

TMommy, I redid my profile take a look and let me know, by the way I am from Kalamazoo.

I would delete the part in your lead line that says a woman who accept me because that is like and immediate red flag without even know what you are not accepting.

Under profession I would just put Retired whatever you used to work as if you worked.

Disability is a condition not a profession unless you are and advocate or someone who works in the field.

If your disability is represented by and organization I think I would just illustrate that in one of your pictures with some kind of T-shirt or membership pin. If you volunteer you could put the award on your profile. People will see it and if they are cool it won't mater. If they are not, and it does, you do not have to deal with them.

is that a fact..cause your profile says Nevada not Michigan

I should have said I used to live in Kalamazoo, but yes I live in Nevada.
In Michigan I was what they call a troll because I live below the bridge, not a da yupper for those above the bridge.
I see you live in Mt. Pleasant, if I remember right there is a bar or something built into the side of a hill by the football stadium, have not been up that way in like 20 years.

Thank you will fix that.

ah I gotcha

Hi Tim,
I guess you rewrote your profile to show more positivity. So I am going to talk about your pictures. You have 3 that are exactly the same. I also look at your other two and well they are taken at the same time, and I am assuming those are the more current ones not the professional one you are using.
I personally think you need to have some showing you doing what ever you do and enjoy in life.
Professional pictures IMO are a huge turn off. Because most of the time they have been airbrushed etc... So not real..

Best wishes in your search

Thank you,
I am not great with pictures, and I really don't know anyone here to take them, I know I don't smile I have been sad for a really long time, not trying to dump on you but my confidence is shot to hell.

I am sure you will get better as you go. I also again welcome you to Mingle.
Also heck man, we all fake our confidence til we make it. You can do this just be who you are and if the lady doesn't like it she wasn't the one

Love the new picture.... since I can't PM you will do it here.